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TOPIC: So do you lose the 'fantasy' once you fulfill it
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A FFM has been SUCH a favorite and ol'reliable fantasy of mine for so long now, i'm wondering what will happen after it is fulfilled.
I was always so worried I won't have it anymore, so it took allot for me to finally commit to seriously seeking it. .... now i'm thinking maybe it just changes into the next new thing, i or we, haven't done and will want to. i don't know... has anyone felt like that and how did the fulfilling the fantasy change things for you? |
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hmmm interesting. i think about sex, but i do not fantasize about the shit. i prefer doing it, not sitting there thinking about doing it. see, this is why im such a God awful flirt heehee...im like stfu, quick talking shit and just do it already. gheesh lol
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oh i like that! you've given me much insight.
awesome. :) |
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Isn't that the amazing part Hayjester? When it goes well, you can call up that memory years later and almost replay it word for word, stroke for stroke as it is etched in your mind with such clarity!
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Yes, I must concede that NAN is the virgin king!
We have fulfilled some fantasies and they have stayed cemented in our minds even after many years. |
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I asked my partner if he would ever get tired of the FFM and he said no he just changes what he wants to see , feel , do...dont think he will ever loose interest in it no matter how many times we have them I dont think he will tire of it!
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Awww, thanks!
I love the fantasy threads best, especially when hot couples are posting theirs |
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hey, thanx!
that's what i'm thinking.... geesh.... well maybe if i keep my fantasy's very general for now, i can still keep some specifics in case the encounter goes awry... this 'first encounter anticipation' is so freakin exciting, but is has an awful element too! lol! nic ...i feel like welcoming you cause you're the best welcomer these forums have!! lol so... welcome! |
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I'm going to go with Nic's wishy washy answer too. Depends on the fantasy and how well it was fulfilled.
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Kind, that is a fascinating question. I have found that sometimes, we become so enamored with a fantasy that it can never live up to the expectation. It is also (for me at least) difficult to get excited with "routine" sex once I have experienced so many of my fantasies.
To answer your question more directly, I can think of a few fantasies that I have lived out that I definitely want to do more of (ex: having my GF pick up a guy in a bar) but there have been some that once fulfilled, I have no desire to repeat. I hate to sound wishy-washy but I guess my answer is, it depends on the fantasy and how it went when you lived it out. |
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A FFM has been SUCH a favorite and ol'reliable fantasy of mine for so long now, i'm wondering what will happen after it is fulfilled.
I was always so worried I won't have it anymore, so it took allot for me to finally commit to seriously seeking it. .... now i'm thinking maybe it just changes into the next new thing, i or we, haven't done and will want to. i don't know... has anyone felt like that and how did the fulfilling the fantasy change things for you? |
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