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TOPIC: Sexual orientation
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As my old man used to say -- "You can call me anything, but too late for supper! Don't call me too late for supper!"

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It's not a matter of agree to disagree, the definition is clear. The resistance to being labeled is understandable since it seems to limit who will play with you. On the other hand, I would think if someone is bi, they should be happy to tell the world since they would be doubling their prospect pool!

So Perfect & Akron, how about I host a little get together at my house since it's half way between Akron and Pittsburgh. Pool, hot tub....and a little extra for the ladies....me!

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If your a guy , I like you, I will let you fuck me. If you are a girl, I like you, I will rock your world

If you dont know what you are I will just laugh and have a beer with you

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I guess we'll have to agree to disagree. I think sexuality and orientation are more complicated. /shrug

I totally agree with the bi-pussy thing!

Baltimore MD
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"I'm bi-winning: I win here and I win there. "

The best Charlie Sheen quote ever.

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Bisexual: of, relating to, or characterized by a tendency to direct sexual desire toward individuals of both sexes.

It's not a label, it's a definition that can be found anywhere.

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"I think people get defensive any time someone tries to 'impose' a label onto them."

A 'label"???? lol.

You can label me 'male', or 'white' or 'middle aged', or 'straight'....I am all of those things, so I don't see them as labels.

Again, I see a very defensive tone.

"If someone fantasizes about same sex relations, but wants to identify as straight, so be it."

They'd just be lying to themselves, as well as others. I can't change it but I can voice my opinion on it.

"I love having sex with women"

Me too, So does the Mrs.

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I think people get defensive any time someone tries to 'impose' a label onto them. If someone fantasizes about same sex relations, but wants to identify as straight, so be it. I list myself as Bi, and while I love having sex with women, I would never pursue one romantically. There are some that might think that makes me just a bit of a slut, not bi, but I identify as bisexual, and it works for me.

Some people only label their sexuality based on whom they would want to be romantically involved with, not on whom they would have sex with. By that definition, I'd be straight.

Bottom line~people mistrust labels, and its their right to call themselves what they choose without someone imposing their opinion.

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"Just because someone might fantasize about strangling their boss, it doesn't make them a murderer."

lol. That's a poor analogy. I don't think many actually get excited about the thought of clenching their hands around the throat until the boss is no longer breathing, or plunging a knife deep into the chest. For most it's a passing thought on how thier work life would be better if their boss wasn't around.

If you get sexually excited (your dick get's hard or your pussy gets wet) thinking about the same sex then you're bi.......and there's nothing wrong with it.

I can't understand why so many are defensive about it.

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I have to disagree with the post stating that if you at all fantasize about being with someone of the same sex, you are at least bi-curious.

Fantasy and action are two different things.

Just because someone might fantasize about strangling their boss, it doesn't make them a murderer.

I often fantasize about being able to play the cello. I'll be damned if I would even know how to hold one properly, nor do I care. In the 'real world' I have no interest.

Sexuality and sexual orientation are gradients, not black or white.

Finally, I've said it before, and I'll say it again. Just because someone happens to be bi-curious, that doesnt mean that they will jump on a same sex playmate and force intimacy. Bisexual an bicurious people do have restraint, just like anyone else. It's frustrating to see some people who have in their profile "no bi or bi curious men or women", like someone with a fantasy might break rules and play with the same sex playmate. Sheesh.

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TOPIC: Sexual orientation