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Sure, balance is key, but there is something to be said for variety as well.

As a young man, I used to imagine the perfect woman being a blend of Ginger and Mary Anne.

From the perspective of age, however, I think I'd rather have one of each.

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ChasnGwen, there's something to be said for that "perfect balance" between the two {wink}

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I don't see anything wrong with being a gentleman... or a caveman ;-)

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Oh, & Nic, that wasn't the assumption I was referring to.

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Wow, Sb! Very well said....both posts! Your description of your secure relationship with Mr. Sb describes mine with my husband perfectly. The only difference is that we've been married over 21 years....together for over 27! I'm fortunate that he understands that I do have fantasies, & wants me to fulfill them. Unfortunately, that's why a lot of vanilla spouses sneak behind each others' backs, & marriages fail. This situation may not work for everyone, but it does for us. I'm also thrilled that there are classy sm out there whom we can trust.

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# 1: "He always opens doors, helps me on w/ coat, just nice chivalrous things like that. He has lit candles and run me a bath, and there is an intimacy to that."

#2 "some hardcore fucking. It can be damn fun with the right partner."

- - - - - - -- -- 1 + 2 = Very good combination:)

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Mrs. SB, I agree with you. One of the first things I ask when talking with any couple is "What are your rules/boundaries?" I actually appreciate it from time to time when people ask me the same thing.

To me, there is a difference between a deep, romantic love and a sensual, romantic evening. Sure, many people combine both. But in the swing lifestyle, there are some that can keep them separate.

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Nin: "Nic, not clear how you can make that assumption,"

You have been talking about him coming to meet you for weeks and posted this ("Nic, ground rules have been discussed, established & agreed upon.") so it seemed clear you were describing an impending meet.

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"I just think that a lady should be treated with class, dignity, and respect." - - -- - -- -- --- - - I agree that the word "ROMANCE" is what is causing a disturbance. Language such as the above statement and the other aspects of the date the OP described seem to be fitting of what I consider a "traditional, elegant, or a romantic fantasy" type of date.

There are many definitions of romance and each couple have their own definition of what it is for them. As a SF I enjoyed those type of dates with one of my SM friends whenever his business brought him to town. It was a "romantic ambience" on the date, but there were never any feelings of a romantic nature. It was just a date and the night would ultimately end in sex. (I simply don't equate the term "making love" with a casual date)

Now that I am in a relationship, I don't really see new SM's alone, as I am usually quite busy with my Partner, Uriah (Mr. Sb) However I did have a prior commitment made last year to a wonderful gentleman for just such a date - Mr. SB approved of the date and was fully supportive after speaking with the gentleman at length. I had a wonderful time on the "date" with the gentleman, made even more fun knowing that I had my partner's complete approval. There were no inappropriate feelings of a romantic emotional nature on either side, merely excellent company, conversation, wine and relaxing fun with a refined gentleman.

My partner and I are secure enough in our relationship to understand the difference between our real life romance v. a "playful romantic date." Unfortunately, that is not always the case, as this community is chock full of people (BOTH SINGLES AND COUPLES in my experience) who show a decided lack of respect for other people's boundaries and relationships or sometimes even a complete lack of common sense.

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Thank you Gina. I appreciate the response.

And for the record, I am not against some hardcore fucking. It can be damn fun with the right partner.

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