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@s_couple We have tried both methods, just her going in ahead of me and flirting and me (on the qt) sending in a ringer whom I know is her type. This seems to work the best for a couple of reasons, one I know what she likes and I am able to prime the guy of what to say and what not to say. Two if we leave it up to chance she sometimes has some jerk-off monopolize her time scaring off guys who might bet better suited for her. She is "nice" and doesn't want to hurt said a-holes feelings by telling him to buzz off. I have to handle that when I arrive but unfortunately my arrival also shoos away a number of potential men. That is why I like to "stack the deck". We also only play when we travel, we have school aged kids and don't want people whispering if someone who knows us sees something. I couldn't care less what people think but it would be tough on the kids.

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Umm there would be pieces of the guy scattered over a wide area.

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"Roofie" - drug being dropped into a drink, something like ecstasy.

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Whats roofie?

I'm pretty sure a younger vanilla guy would not waste five minutes before relating the whole tale to everyone they knew. If anyone does this I would highly recommend doing as a role-play thing set up with someone in the LS. Or at least far away from your home base lol.

"You know what happened to me? This lady at the bar blah blah...."

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Toomuch,

Thx. We have to see if we'll ever try this bar fantasy. Exciting for sure, but thinking about vanilla partner potential risk again... A clingy one is definitely the most troublesome. Do a-hole guys still use roofie these days? That's another potential concern...

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We have found that most men really aren't that easily deterred. I usually go out with my husband but visit with people at the bar and are hit on quite frequently.

Locally my husband is often playing with his band. I quickly point him out and tell them thaw the doesn't mind when I visit with other men. It rarely stops them from making a pass.

When out of town, my husband is generally right beside me. Men still get awfully flirty. No one has ever not followed like a puppy if hubby has invited them to join us.

We started the Lifestyle with completely vanilla people in vanilla settings. My husband finds it an in incredible turn-on. He always had the fantasy that someone would approach him out of the blue. He loves the shock and thrill that it gives a man that never dreamed that this type of thing could happen to him.

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S_couple: I would love to pick up your wife anywhere :) Just sayin...

Lexington KY
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WV, the first time we played out this fantasy was at the Holiday Inn lounge in Marietta. We used to live down near Front St. We were introduced to swinging there

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Wv... Wow... We're learning everyday here. We'll see if we are going to try that on our next date (the two of us just go out on a date every month if there's no swinging activity that month).

It certainly sounds exciting. :)

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@s_couple good points.

We usually only do it now when we are on vacation. It's still a rush to see her walk into a bar and watch the heads turn. Not wanting to look desperate, she has developed a tendency to check her phone frequently for the time/message. This has given most guys an easy opening line, "waiting for someone?" (If he is attractive) A - "Yes, but I don't think he is coming." (If she is not interested) A - "My husband."

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