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If you are going to do this and have a measure of excitement about it, go to a singles bar or a hotel lounge where a lot of traveling business men frequent. Take a place a few chairs away, and let her work. We have enjoyed this game several times.

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This seems like a very exciting but tame fantasy. It seems odd to me that a few posters said they would not have the courage to pull this off.

A few ideas come to mind. If your going to do this at a non lifestyle club, it might be wise just to flirt, get a few drinks and not go beyond that. I would think that non swingers would get confused and could bring some drama into your fun. Example being falling in love with your wife and stalk her. Maybe better she flirts gets herself a drink and moves on to the next guy.

I don't see the excitement in doing this with SLS members. We know what to expect and picking up guys at clubs is normal to almost boring. If you just tried to flirt only at a LS club she would get the Rep of being a tease quickly.

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I'll be there this weekend. Colette, not Toms River, unfortunately. Maybe someday, but honestly, I'm more of a Bergen County guy.

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The Office in Toms River NJ works well too

Toms River NJ
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We used to go to Collette's in New Orleans a lot. Still the best lifestyle club we've been to.

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Come back home for a visit. We'll meet at the Carousel Bar in the Monteleone. Ms. LaCouple can sit and rotate.

Happy Mardi Gras!

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Would love to do something like this some day.

Odessa TX
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@dman964

We always played it by ear if we didn't have an arranged meet with a man. When we went out to pick up men, she had carte blanche to let men hit on her or to be aggressive and hit on them. Her wedding and engagement rings were hard to miss, so any guy who hit on her had to know she was married. When she met a hot prospect and was good to go, she would tell him of my presence and invite him to join her at my table or booth. Some guys bolted at that point, but most accepted. If he joined us with no hesitation, she would seat herself next to him and introduce me, at which point we both made him feel welcomed (and lucky). Invariably it was her covertly fondling him beneath the table and whispering naughties in his ear that convinced him to come home with us.

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We have turned the vanilla naughty a couple of times with mixed results. Twice very hot once pretty awkward.

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No need to turn a vanilla, just have your hubby LMK what bar you will be in and I'll take care of the rest.

;^D

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