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Toomuch,

Thx. We have to see if we'll ever try this bar fantasy. Exciting for sure, but thinking about vanilla partner potential risk again... A clingy one is definitely the most troublesome. Do a-hole guys still use roofie these days? That's another potential concern...

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We have found that most men really aren't that easily deterred. I usually go out with my husband but visit with people at the bar and are hit on quite frequently.

Locally my husband is often playing with his band. I quickly point him out and tell them thaw the doesn't mind when I visit with other men. It rarely stops them from making a pass.

When out of town, my husband is generally right beside me. Men still get awfully flirty. No one has ever not followed like a puppy if hubby has invited them to join us.

We started the Lifestyle with completely vanilla people in vanilla settings. My husband finds it an in incredible turn-on. He always had the fantasy that someone would approach him out of the blue. He loves the shock and thrill that it gives a man that never dreamed that this type of thing could happen to him.

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S_couple: I would love to pick up your wife anywhere :) Just sayin...

Lexington KY
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WV, the first time we played out this fantasy was at the Holiday Inn lounge in Marietta. We used to live down near Front St. We were introduced to swinging there

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Wv... Wow... We're learning everyday here. We'll see if we are going to try that on our next date (the two of us just go out on a date every month if there's no swinging activity that month).

It certainly sounds exciting. :)

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@s_couple good points.

We usually only do it now when we are on vacation. It's still a rush to see her walk into a bar and watch the heads turn. Not wanting to look desperate, she has developed a tendency to check her phone frequently for the time/message. This has given most guys an easy opening line, "waiting for someone?" (If he is attractive) A - "Yes, but I don't think he is coming." (If she is not interested) A - "My husband."

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Too many variables with vanilla community because they dont understand swinging etiquette.

Some are possessive, thinking that once an intercourse happens, then they must belong together. Some are selfish jerks who only care about themselves and not about their partners (mostly guys here of course). Some have performance issues once they know what the deal is all about (guys again). Some wont even have the guts to proceed and try it out (this happened to us).

So we rule out vanilla people now. Just not worth all the troubles.

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Its a virtual card, and I know you have a creative imagination.

BT

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S_ couple it really depends on the couple. Some husbands like to arrange for a SM from the lifestyle to be at a bar at a specific day and time and "pick up the wife" this works well for ladies who like the male of the couple to pre-screen guys for her. Some like to go pick up vanilla guys. I did the vanilla guy thing once. And night one he started using the word "mine" as in I was his. whoa, back up dude I know you have been involved in a poly relationship before but I'm not seeking to belong to anyone. I don't really want my man prescreening guys for me, and he doesn't really want to. Heck I can't even get him to make arrangements with my favorite guys as a surprise for me, not even the local one!

PG {pouting girl} (who's card seems to have gotten lost in the mail)

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Mrs. UHW, I'm not accepting applicants when I visit. I hope that eases your mind. After all, we do have a bit of a quid pro quo situation on our hands. You know where I'll be. Please, pick the bar.

@s_couple - great question, but I don't think it matters in this circumstance. Well, I hope it doesn't matter.

BT

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