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it was always our preference as well. Trooper has had a couple of hot fmf's but really did like the dynamic of adding a SM. Or adding a SM to a MFMF...

Louisville KY
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@CR I got the gist of it and was just poking a little fun. Thanks for not taking offense.

@sexy I totally agree with you and your husband. For me at least, an FMF is good for the ego but an MFM is a much bigger turn on. I used to think I was an oddity but thankfully, I've met many couples who share my preferences. And a very wonderful lady who embraces my perviness.

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Every man seems to think that a female female male threesome is the ultimate. Both my husband and I think exactly the opposite. My husband is completely straight, but likes the dynamics of the mail male female threesome. Truthfully, I prefer it that way too. I have been involved in many multiple partners situations, and feel that two or three men and myself is the very sexy way to go. Are you appreciate the comment about "hitting the jackpot" It's funny, there are so many single males on these sites, that want to be part of a couple, but I think truthfully, they're actually looking to only go solo.

My husband and I never play separately, because we think most of the fun is watching each other. That includes any situation. It is for that reason, that we never advertise that we are looking for single males. When we want one or two or more we know exactly where to find them.

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Nic,

Not drinking anything...yet. I suppose I could have picked a better analogy. I guess I've been living in a rural area too long.

Usually, where I live coyotes tease dogs away so they can take advantage of them as a pack. Some dogs absolutely live for tangling with coyotes. It was suggested that that the poor horny dude in the bar had somehow been baited and then only offered the horrible outcome of an MFM with a sexy lady and her husband when he was hoping for one on one. I guess some guys would consider this a burn. I would consider this akin hitting the lotto while I was only going to the store for nice loaf of bread.

Does that make more sense?

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So big dogs have food dishes in the woods and he is hoping a coyote will lure him away from it to be jumped by a pack of coyotes? And this reminds you of having a sexy lady flirt with you in a bar?

Let me check the "What are you drinking?" thread cause whatever it is, you may need to slow down a little.

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Sexy,

I'm reminded of the story about the lone coyote that lures the big dog away from its food dish into the woods where all the coyote's pals jump the dog...unaware that this is precisely what the dog was hoping might happen.

You can bait this dog any time! And judging from those sexy thumbnails you do indeed appear to be a very hot wife.

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Great post Iflirt. I never though of myself as a hot wife but I guess I am. I find that I love to flirt with guys in public. My hubby loves to watch too so it works great for us. I guess being the center of attention with more than one man makes me feel sexy.

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I can see how a horny guy on the make might feel like he's been had by a sexy hotwife's come-on, only to be told that hubby is present and watching and will be joining. Be that as it may, it's still the couple's perogative to go about picking up a man using the technique/s that they are both comfortable with and which maximize their mutual thrill.

For my ex-hotwife and I, the thrill of the hunt was a big part of picking up men in bars. Once wifey decided she wanted to go 'hunting' we both were excited and looked forward to it. Her approach was usually aggressive and it didn't take her long to attract interest. We chose early disclosure. Once my wife had stalked, met and charmed her quarry and she was hot for him, she immediately told him matter-of-factly that I was present and watching and that we were there to pick up a man to join us. I was usually sitting alone at a table or booth and she'd then invite him to join us for more drinks. Upon making the offer to him, she'd come join me. Only a couple of guys ever said 'no thanks'. We both knew that if he followed her to meet me that he was as good as in our bed. Over drinks and small talk most guys would tell us they couldn't believe their luck LOL We didn't disclose that I am bi unless he asked. That usually meant he was bi too and we could suggest some mm play if he wished. Otherwise, I refrained from suggesting or initiating any mm contact beyond incidental contact, but you would be surprised at how many of those 'vanilla' guys also wanted to try mm oral sex for the first time during their first 3some :)

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I would hardly call it bait and switch. If it is what you enjoy, go for it! We have all read how several single guys were introduced into the lifestyle in this manner.

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DD: I/we can appreciate your bait and switch comment and never thought about it that way. After thinking about it I/we have come to the following conclusion: Classic bait and switch has to do with a monetary transaction, and since our fun isn't monetary, it's not quite the same IMHO. This is one of our types of fun, and while somewhat innocent, if it doesn't work out, then so be it. When we did open our profile to single males we were inundated with email asking to meet me alone, etc. that's NOT what we want and both of us are offended at those emails and offers. We would rather chance a "pick up" where there are performance issues but still have the thrill of the chase or flirt.

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