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I had a girlfriend who liked it when I paid for it.
Another who liked it when I charged for it. The first one was more of a haggler. And more of a hag ... |
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The curvy half of TWH has told me that it's a turn-on for her to think that a man would be willing to pay good money to experience her body, whether it be for a performance or for full-blown sex. We'll probably never try that fantasy, but anything that turns her on, turns me on.
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Mrs Sav - the key difference for me is I want to enjoy being with people who are genuinely having a good time and are enjoying being with me as well.
The money would cloud that distinction for me. It has less to do about morality/judgement for me. That's why I stopped going to strip clubs years ago. That, and I could never get the X-SO to go...LOL |
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Mrs Sav, if you're wondering whether shaking your breasts in a man's face for money, and selling the use of your pussy are equivalent, I guess most would say no, they are not even close.
If my wife came home with $200 for letting random men put their faces on her breasts, that would be OK. She would shower, and she might be even hornier than usual. If she came home with $200 for letting random men fuck her, that would be quite different. She might not be horny at all, and showering might not make her feel altogether clean. Different people's experience will surely vary. |
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I like to think the dancers are not in it for the money Mrs. Sav, they are doing it because they enjoy it and if they did not get paid would do it for free...:)
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It was a legitimate questions not a judgement but seems to have been a show stopper. Appears no one had any thoughts on it lol.
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interesting Mrs Sav.....
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Is it paying for it if you slip a hundred in my G string while I dance ? lol
Is stripping for money just a "vanilla" version of prostitution? It seems not many men object to paying for a women to shake her breasts in their face or give them a lap dance so why the stigma actually paying for sex? Do men really think strippers would do those same things if not for the cash? Do they seriously believe dancers simply "find them attractive" What's the difference ? Mrs Sav |
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Weaver AL |
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I agree with Nic; you should report them to SLS admin.
I would never pay for sex. I sort of pay, but in a very different way. Usually we meet for dinner in a Michelin or Zagat rated restaurant with hopefully a Wine Spectator rated wine list. I pay for the entire dinner including tax and gratuity. I also pay for the coat check and valet, if she used either. If she flew in to meet me, I provide her with a prepaid airline ticket. Finally, I provide the hotel room. However, I refuse to put any money in her hand, pocket, or purse. |
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