We do this several times a year. It's not like a big gang bang where I just show up and a train of men use me. And we never have we successfuly organized it from the internet. It's more spontaneous. We find the men through relatively normal circumstances. Here are a few examples:

Just this weekend we anounced that we were going to the boat show and offered to meet a couple or even some men there. As usual all the responses were from men that just wanted to meet with me and all came way too late to act upon. So we went to the show and I had a hall pass to do a little flirting. After getting to know them and feeling attracted, I just ask them if they want to fool around. I tell them the truth basically. I'm beyond the embarrassment of asking for sex. It was my first father-son experience. I rode back to our house with them and fucked the son in the back of their RV. His dad and my husband laid me at the house.

A year ago at our super bowl party I had a great time in the bedroom. My husband was taking some medical classes and invited a bunch of students over for the game. I served them food and drinks in lingerie and after the first one got up enough nerve to go to the bedroom with me, the party began. I think it was my screaming and the bed banging against the wall that started the fun. In one's and two's they took their turn in the bedroom while the rest of the guys watched the game. I had a ball! We tried to invite couples over this year and I think the Sunday night schedule was too much.

Once on a business trip in LA we met a group of men at the hotel bar. After drinks and inuendos and a public dare from my husband, I went to our room, bent over the bed with a blindfold, and my husband sent each guy to the room individually. They were to fuck me from behind, say nothing, and leave. Afterwards back in the bar we played a game and they made me match the orgasm with the man.

Mostly when I want a MFM or more we just go to a hotel bar and take the pick of the litter.

This remains my favorite part of the LS, sharing a sexy woman with another guy (or two or three) is way hotter for me than just about anything else. And if you lived closer to most of the respondents here, you get get offers of more than just advice.

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I can't thank you all enough for the support, words of encouragement, advice, and the confidence boosting compliment. Thank you. It's really nice to have some experienced players and veterans offer up words of wisdom, and insight.

That goes without saying.

One other option is to meet up with another couple, and during playtime take on both guys at once.

T

Good advice all around. I'd like to add that Mrs. Adari is one helluva hot babe. Wow...

The nerves are absolutely normal, though I don't recommend picking up a guy at a vanilla bar. At least not for your 1st time. Because unless you're planning on getting a hotel room, do you really want to invite a complete stranger back to your place?

There's plenty of single guys on this site, so pick out a few you (and hubby) are interested in and start contacting them. Some will inevitably flake out, that just goes with the territory, but don't sweat it.

Of course, we've found that a LS club is the best/easiest place to meet single men. What we do is identify a gentlemen that we both agree on and then Miss Cpl will approach him and strike up a conversation while I just sit back and relax. If she's still talking with him after a few minutes, I'll go over and introduce myself and we just let things play out from there. Usually we talk for a bit to get to know each other and then maybe hit up the hot tub. If everything is still clicking, we'll invite him to a playroom with us and explain our rules and exactly what it is we're looking for that evening. After that, it's go time.

T

Adri, it is perfectly normal to be that mix of excited but nervous, not only just because its new, but you might find you have that same feeling meeting new potential play partners. Even ones I have texted and chatted with at length there is still that feeling. Sometimes even when seeing someone I have played with before but haven't seen in awhile.

Thanks for the advice you two.

BLT2LST (I hope I got that right, I'm going by memory).. It is definitely something I want. I have a few things I like in porn that I'm just not down to do in real life, or maybe not ready for just yet.. who knows what I'll be into 5 years from now. Also, I personally think that we are normal.. hyper normal as far as desires go, but what makes us abnormal is our willingness to be real with what we want, and to overcome the necessary fears to have those desires fulfilled.

Nik... Thanks for that. I'm not really interested in dragging it out, but I would like to have me and the Mr. hang out with the guy for drinks or pool, maybe go dancing.. I don't know. Then have the Mr. sort of lead things, or the guys to have figured things out first. I think until I'm really confident in the situations it may just be easier if the Mr. would lead it, for the most part.

I'm a weird mix of Likes-to-be-in-control, and desperately-loves-it-when-a-man-takes-control.

Adari, my best advice is to go at your own pace, pushing your boundaries a little at a time. See if there is a single guy on SLS in your area that you are attracted to who has certs and specifically says he is willing to take things slow. Email him, explain you would like to meet for a drink. Nothing more. If you meet him and he isn't pushy but you still like him, ask if he wold like to get together again and maybe watch you and your husband with no guarantee of playing himself. If that goes well, you can decide if you want to play a little the next time, maybe oral only. Some guys won't have the patience and you can't do this for months on end but I am sure you can find a guy who is willing to take his time.

BTW, the exhilaration and nervousness are quite normal, can you remember the first time you had sex with your husband? Didn't it feel a little like that?

Adari: Please what's normal? If we were "normal," none of us would be on this site....LOL...I can see being taken totally off guard by this. I love to watch gangbangs in porn. Would I ever do it if given the chance, probably not unless I was REALLY in the moment. Go with your gut.