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Not sure if you want an actual "thank-you" or if you are looking for a reassuring "acknowledgement" from the other guy that he recognizes you are the alpha male and he is a guest...or maybe both. If you feel that strongly about it, I am surprised that you even allowed the 2nd date. Could he have called belatedly to offer contrived thanks after your wife encouraged him to do so?

Btw, women are not a piece of chattel, owned by men...... a nice "thanks for sharing {inviting, or including me}, I had a great time" type of email/text from a SM is sufficient for us. Better yet if he says that while we are all having fun together as Mr. U enjoys hearing the other guys comment about how much fun we have.

I don't find it objectifying or demeaning when some of our regulars tell Mr. U that he was very lucky to have found me. ;-)

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@Nick

"Depending on the situation and the relationship of all involved, a "thank you for sharing" text...... but also may come across as demeaning to some women. She may not want to feel like a possession that her husband loaned to a buddy. But that is a different conversation."

Now that would make a great stand alone thread, why don't you start it. Just let us know where.

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Should a single guy keep the husband "in the loop"? Of course. Depending on the situation and the relationship of all involved, a "thank you for sharing" text may be reassuring to some husbands but also may come across as demeaning to some women. She may not want to feel like a possession that her husband loaned to a buddy. But that is a different conversation.

It sounds like the guy spent two nights with your wife and only thanked you after the second night. Kinda splitting hairs I think because he did in fact thank you afterwards but you thought he should have sent two thank yous? The bigger question IMO is, was the guy courteous and respectful of your wife, treat her well and go out of his way to show her a good time? If yes then if I were you, I would call him and explain that while everything went well, IF this happened in the future you would appreciate more communication and spell out exactly what you expect.

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BIt of a change of topic but what are your thoughts related to how the single guy should, for lack of a better word, show respect to the husband. I posted this question earlier in the Swinger advice forum and am interested in understanding if a single guy should at least thank the husband for a great time with his wife.

We recently hset up a night for my wife to spend an evevning alone with a guy while I was away on business. they had a great time. I loved the stories, pics and videos, but got a little torqued as the guy didn't call me to say how much fun he had and thnks for giving him my wife until after he'd been with her two days in a row. Wife and I agreed it was ok they met up the 2nd time but no contact from the guy until after the 2nd meetup.

Am I wrong in thinking the guy should show a bit more respect for being with the misses? Everything else as far as the sex is great. Just want to get centered on this topic.

Thanks!

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We had a friend over for her enjoyment. Afterwards, he slept in the guest room. I woke pretty early and discovered she was missing. I could hear her sucking him off in the other room before he left for work.

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One of the first times we did something with a single guy. She had him come over for a fuck session and he had no idea I was in the next room listening. I found it very erotic and stimulating to say the least, and I had no idea who he was or what he looked like. He liked telling her what to do, and she obliged. Finished with a very wet cream pie.

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Today. She recorded it and sent it to me. Hott!

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I realize that I'm reviving a very old thread, but what happened Saturday morning fits here perfectly.

Tammy spent the night in a hotel with a SM. When I finished work a little before 6:00 in the morning, I asked what was the plan for the rest of the morning. She replied "Come here." I arrived at the hotel about 10 minutes later and went up to their room. When I got about 12 feet from their room door, I heard the unmistakable sound of Tammy getting fucked hard. I love that sound. In retrospect, I should have stood by the door a listened for a few minutes. I didn't. I knocked and they let me in. They started right back up and I joined in.

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NJ, that reminds of a couple I played with last year. We met at a bar and came back to my place. The three of us got started and pretty soon, the guy got up and opened my blinds and cracked the window. At first I thought he was just getting some fresh air but a few minutes later he leaves theroom and then I see him outside watching, as if he were a peeping Tom. lol

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I've gotten BJ's and such from wives when they're on the phone with their hubby/bf. One time I met a couple and the guy disappeared from the room saying "I'll be back, you guys get started". Me and the gf start getting into it and the clothes came off. After awhile I get up off the bed to go grab a condom from my jeans, and I see the guy outside the door leaning against the wall eating a sandwich just listening lol.. He looked at me while stuffing his face and gave me the "keep going, keep going!" signal.

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