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TOPIC: Listening to her with another guy
Created by: bonnieandclydect
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I recently decided to have her play alone and have a guy over our place while i was at work , I received a voice mail message from her while they where going at it , it was very HOT!! Next i would love to be on the phone with her while she is with the other guy. Does anyone else do this ?

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Interesting. Never considered that.

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My ex and I were in a long distance relationship for the first couple of years. We had an arrangement that she could have sex with other men and would call me so that I could listen. It was very intimate and made us feel as if we were sharing the experience, even though we were a few hundred miles apart. It gave us fodder for conversation later, too. Like the time I was listening and suddenly there was a 'thump' and things got muffled. Eventually the phone battery died. Later she called and apologized: "I'm so sorry! But he had tied me to the bedposts and when he was fucking me the phone got knocked off the side table... and I couldn't pick it up since I was tied!" Even though we're not together, we still laugh about that when we see one another... If you get turned on by the sounds of sex, I highly recommend it. The hardest part is the woman getting used to asking the guy if he minds the phone being on. But we never had a guy turn her down.

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We've done variations of the theme several times. Leaving A to play with her lover is a huge thrill. I love walking up to the hotel room door after about half an hour and listening to her through the door for a minute before I walk in . . . Calling her to listen in is also great. I love it when she picks up the phone all out of breath. Lately she's been playing with one guy in particular. It certainly doesn't hurt the fantasy that he's a younger, fit, well-hung, black gentleman that she loves having sex with.

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I have done the exact thing that was the hottest message I'll ever received. When see is with a single guy I'll sit in another room and listen as much as watch.I l also believe that sex is intimate and I think it is kinda tough on the single guys to be as intimate as she wants If I'm hovering around. Charlie

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Her male friends have been very respectful. They don't always contact me after but some do. I don't require it as my head is in a different place. It's mostly about her right? We've stopped playing separately for now anyway,her decision.

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We sext about this all the time. It is a big turn on.

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Good to see you again TWH. I was just thinking about you two today, I got a postcard for a weekend special for a cabin on the Clarion River...we never did fulfill that fantasy....

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If my wife had a good time, nothing more is required by me. That's what makes me happy. If she knew I wanted to hear some words of appreciation, she'd probably let him know. But really, this is about her, not me.

Hey Nic, we're back!

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Not sure if you want an actual "thank-you" or if you are looking for a reassuring "acknowledgement" from the other guy that he recognizes you are the alpha male and he is a guest...or maybe both. If you feel that strongly about it, I am surprised that you even allowed the 2nd date. Could he have called belatedly to offer contrived thanks after your wife encouraged him to do so?

Btw, women are not a piece of chattel, owned by men...... a nice "thanks for sharing {inviting, or including me}, I had a great time" type of email/text from a SM is sufficient for us. Better yet if he says that while we are all having fun together as Mr. U enjoys hearing the other guys comment about how much fun we have.

I don't find it objectifying or demeaning when some of our regulars tell Mr. U that he was very lucky to have found me. ;-)

Shelly

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@Nick

"Depending on the situation and the relationship of all involved, a "thank you for sharing" text...... but also may come across as demeaning to some women. She may not want to feel like a possession that her husband loaned to a buddy. But that is a different conversation."

Now that would make a great stand alone thread, why don't you start it. Just let us know where.

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TOPIC: Listening to her with another guy