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TOPIC: Divorce and bi fantasies
Created by: wife4hotguys
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I would like to get some opinions on this and if it's common with divorce, age, or if it's just my preferences possibly changing. I'm mid 30's, divorced for 5yrs from an open relationship on her end. I was mostly voyeur.  For about the last year I've noticed that after I've been drinking or watching videos of my ex, I've been having bi fantasies. I'm still really turned on watching her or anything hetero, but when I think of myself in a sexual situation it's usually with a guy. I have sex with women but my fantasies are bi. Anyone have any thoughts on this?
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IFLIRT, that's kind of how it happened for me. My ex always talked about putting me in bi situations. We never went very far in that direction tho. I have wondered myself if divorce triggers an interest in exploring. 

JOEY, I feel the same way about being in a relationship with a guy. That doesn't interest me at all. However, I have fantasized about 1 on 1 on the sub side. 
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Nothing wrong with it. Who cares about labels. Just go with it. If you want to try a guy, try a guy. if you still like women, be with them too.

Being bi I think is awesome. I dont have much interest in being with a guy one on one and wouldnt have any relationship interest with one. But if I were hanging out with a bi guy and nothing else was going on. Well im sure we would find something to do...lol
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"I didn't have what I'd consider gay fantasies from a young age, but I did have some fantasies about wanting to sexually feel what it's like to be a girl."
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oh I always think of what it's like for a guy!! ....not sure why but I just do. ;)

Nice post IFlirt ;)
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Kind, 
Thanks for the opinions that's what I'm looking for. I agree. I don't think gay is likely. I'm still girl crazy lol. To answer your question though, I didn't have what I'd consider gay fantasies from a young age, but I did have some fantasies about wanting to sexually feel what it's like to be a girl. That's mostly what I have now also. I was in a cuckold relationship with my ex and it made me realize that I'm extremely turned on by being submissive. That's when the bi fantasies became frequent. 
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Besides what everyone said about changing the profile. Which should be done.

Youre either bi or maybe gay.

If you NEED to think bi thoughts in order to get off with a woman, maybe youre gay and just realizing it. Happens all the time. No big deal.
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Nic I didnt think anyone was being critical, I just didn't think that the profile 'text' and this OP was inconsistent like Cum4 said... :)
I agree his couples profile name is not only misleading, it doesn't make any sense with his text.
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TOPIC: Divorce and bi fantasies