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..nope, just really confused.

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del, I am rarely sexually attracted to latino men yet I am a latina myself. Does that mean I am a racist against myself?

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*hands fat free peanut butter to Tort*

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What do you mean owning up to your views. And, why is it that you think preference is racism. Thanks, interesting topic.

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Interesting replies...is there a double standard when it comes to white women who prefer black men? Of course there is. But the vast majority of the white women who are involved in the lifestyle and prefer black men are already married to white men and are looking to explore something different from what they get daily.

Like I said before this is America: I might not agree with what you have to say...but I'll defend your right to sat it.

But I still think you should own up to your views whatever they may be.

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also, it is 100% certain that some of the people expressing a preference for race are racist. but simply to express a personal preference does not make one racist.

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having thought about it some more, i will say this:

there is no doubt that we live in a society that could be described as racist. in such a society it is no surprise that many people of one race are not attracted to those of another, it is simply because they have no personal experience that would lead them to be so attracted.

just as they may have no personal experience that would them to be attracted to someone much older or younger, to someone much heavier or much lighter, or to a member of the sex opposite that which they are used to playing.

it is not to say that they would not have a fabulous time with some 20 years older, or 100 pounds heavier, or of a different sex than they are used to playing with. it's just that that is not what is familiar and comfortable. same thing with race.

think about it yet one more way. would you say that a typical white man is more likely to be similar to a random white man than he is likely to be similar to a random black man? if you disagree that a random white man would be completely interchangeable for a random black man, then you also disagree that there are absolutely no differences between black men and white, and that one therefore could easily have a preference for one over the other.

that idea was difficult to express, hope someone can figure out what i just said and explain it to me ;-)

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what pixieNdixie said. its preference not racism.

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I have often wondered the same thing, the women that only want black men you do not see them being called racist its just thier preference but if your on the other side of that preference your a racist. LOL. I just like what I like, I also dont fuck people with piercings, I dont like the idea of germs around it and its a turn off for me, not to say that some are not cute or sexy but I just dont find it appealing. Just preference love.

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is there a difference between stating a preference for a particular skin color, and stating a preference for HPW? if there is, I am missing it.

is a white woman who is only looking for black men, is that also racist?

this is about personal preference in sexual attraction, not about civil rights.

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