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TOPIC: Attention Wh0re!
Created by: M4Jasmine
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My wife loves attention & she's a total closet exhibitionist!

She loves being flirty, dressed up sexy, but most of all loves it when money is spent on her. This actually turns her 'on'!

We met a guy last year who took her shopping and by the time we were done she was beyond horny! She stripped down in the back seat of his car, put on the dress he bought her so he could see her in it & fuck her out of it soon as we got back to our hotel room.

We're going to Vegas later this summer and I want to find a guy to spoil but how do I say what she likes w/o making this look like I'm trying to 'pimp' her out? I'm really weary of sending the wrong message...

All advise is greatly appreciated!

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Thank you all for commenting on my topic. Your words/advice is greatly appreciated!

Thank you SLOtowner!!! Love your idea and will definately find a way to live out the 'limo ride' suggestion! ;)

What makes this difficult is that she gets the thrill (and turn'd on) when the attention for her is genuine, not 'negociated' on.

She'd feel very uncomfortable if it was a "trade for sex" date / arrangement...

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I have to disagree with you on this one Fun.

"when a man overtly agrees to furnish something of monetary value in exchange for sex, it IS prostitution, and the woman IS a whore,"

I may be wrong but I don't get the vibe that this couple is in it for the money but rather for the thrill of the role play. This is a fantasy they want to experience not a way of getting extra cash. What I am saying is, while you may be technically and legally correct, fantasies often involve doing something that you would not normally do. If a couple asked you (Fun) to role play a pizza delivery guy that the wife seduces, does that mean you are forever known as a pizza delivery boy?

Let's face it, a lot of regular dates involve a man buying a woman a nice dinner, maybe flowers and a small gift so does that mean if they have sex that night, she is a prostitute?

My advice to the OP remains the same, communicate your fantasy to the potential "john" clearly and enjoy yourselves!

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HOLY CRAP! I gotta get some friends with this line of thinking ... except I'll be the whore! HA!

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Im an attention whore, but I have never whored for anything but attention.. lol.

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I think it is not uncommon for women to fantasize about being a hooker for a night. But make no mistake about it: when a man overtly agrees to furnish something of monetary value in exchange for sex, it IS prostitution, and the woman IS a whore, even if not a full-time one, and even if she is motivated to have sex for more than just monetary reasons. I've heard of people getting around this by the husband surreptitiously slipping the "John" the payment that he then uses to pay for her services. In your case that might involve loaning him your credit card for the shopping spree.

As for your dilemma about how to tell a prospective John what she wants without you sounding like her pimp, you can't. Because unless you provide the funds for her fantasy, a pimp is exactly what you would be. I'm not being judgmental or disapproving; just trying to be honest.

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Welcome to the forum M4J

As already mentioned, be up front about it and don't let anyone judge you for your preferences. I understand you not wanting to pimp her out but whatever turns ALL of you on is always good.

Just tell your prospective playmate you have an "Indecent Proposal" for him and it won't cost a million $$.

lol

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Well, I gotta tell you, I understand the psychology (more or less) of what drives this completely!

It is exciting, cute, seductive and endearing all at the same time. I will say that you should lavish a LOT of attention on your wife, buy her flowers and pretty things as often as you can.

Nothing works like the truth. If you are going ot Vegas, find a high roller type at the dice tables and ask him if he wants to get laid with a cute married woman with a fetish for men who spend money on her, but not pay her like a whore. If he agrees, introduce them and explain it is for real and tell him to take her to a casino shop and buy her some fancy underwear and such. Then all of you go up to your room and with you watching, let him, as you say, "fuck her out of it". Better yet, rent a limo, tip and warn the driver in advance, then all three of you get in and and have your new friend undress her and do her in the limo while it drives up and down the Vegas strip. Then have her go with you back up to your room with a mess in her new panties. Maybe bring the new "sugar daddy" friend along to reprise his role in ravishing her messy puss again.

That is how I would play it.

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My wife loves attention & she's a total closet exhibitionist!

She loves being flirty, dressed up sexy, but most of all loves it when money is spent on her. This actually turns her 'on'!

We met a guy last year who took her shopping and by the time we were done she was beyond horny! She stripped down in the back seat of his car, put on the dress he bought her so he could see her in it & fuck her out of it soon as we got back to our hotel room.

We're going to Vegas later this summer and I want to find a guy to spoil but how do I say what she likes w/o making this look like I'm trying to 'pimp' her out? I'm really weary of sending the wrong message...

All advise is greatly appreciated!

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