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Newburgh NY
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We have been to M&Gs at vanilla bars where people have gotten out of line............flashing, too much PDA etc. Usually that happens later in the evening after a few too many. That is the point when we leave.

At the same time, we have been out and saw the same thing when no M&G was planned at the bar.

Some people seem to have a hard time acting like adults in public.

Poway CA
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Hum I am glad you that have replied have not had an issue. I can tell you thats not how it goes here in Dallas at times. I do know of one bar owner in the past who call the cops on any M/G he could find."

Call the police? Number one, how would he even know that it is a M&G unless people are acting in an inappropriate manner? We have never had any issues because when people are at a vanilla bar we act like we are adults in a vanilla bar LOL. We do have numerous lifestyle clubs here in this area. However, M&Gs here tend to be held at vanilla bars because not everyone has memberships to clubs and it is more of a "neutral" location. Gives you a chance to just have friendly conversation without being mis-interpreted as wanting to fuck someone :0).

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Wow why is someone calling the cops? My friend owned a bar and he let us close it down on a Saturday for a private party. ************(Shout out to the EXTON MnG's!!!) Those regulars were told what the party was about and if they wanted to come in , they could. Meet N Greets at the local place is just that... a Meet N Greet. Most of the places I've been too have all been swinger friendly. They make lots of money from those who want to have a good time and doing it regularly! I've never heard of any problems anywhere. What would be the difference with a group of people getting together say after a wedding or what have you. No difference... You're gonna have those who cross the line at times, but thats everywhere, not just where the swingers go!

Chesapeake VA
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Call the cops? Why?You're not performing any lewd behavior in public why worry?

Our group recent went to the race track/casino.Followed by a nice after party. We had a ball.

Philadelphia PA
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We go to both local mngs at Vanilla bars and also lifestyle clubs about an hour away. For us we do both for a couple of reasons. #1 they are different. When we go to a lifestyle club we are really letting our hair down and open to a lot more. The mngs are a little more laid back and we usually are just looking more to dance a little, connect with old friends, meet some new ones. #2 They are closer so it's usually an earlier night for us.

Wyomissing PA
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Hum I am glad you that have replied have not had an issue. I can tell you thats not how it goes here in Dallas at times. I do know of one bar owner in the past who call the cops on any M/G he could find.

I do wonder tho. Do those of you who do these M/G at vanilla bars not have a lifestyle club that is close by? By that I mean within say 1hr or so of Driving or Travel?

Dallas TX
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We have friends who do monthly M&Gs at various vanilla bars...there have never been any issues or trouble. Everyone is over 21 years of age, its alot of fun.

San Marcos TX
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Almost all the M&G's (meet & greets) we have been to are at vanilla locations; to wit a hotel bar with a friendly accommodating staff. The hotel, of course offers a place to go if connections work out, and quite honestly there aren't enough lifestyle places to go to!!! As was mentioned below, it also gives comfort to those not quite sure about things that they won't loose control and be subjected to something they aren't comfortable with, or don't want to happen. It's kind of why first meetings are generally done at/in public places rather than private locations.

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We have never attended one, but it sounds like a swinger version of the venerable BDSM "munch". You can look up the history of this on wikipedia. One advantage is that by meeting in this way it can serve as a ultra low pressure way for curious but cautious people to find out more about swinging.

Ann Arbor MI
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