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With respect to the original poster:

If you're a single person, you can try the Yahoo groups. They have quite a few that are devoted to spankos who are looking to get together. Of course, they also welcome married people and couples who are into spanking. You might find a group in your area and cultivate some spanking friends.

When my wife came out and told me of her long-felt deep desire to be spanked, it started us on the road to swinging. She had dropped hints from time-to-time, and I'd give her the occasional swat on her bottom, or a few playful smacks while she was riding me on top, but I didn't realize that she wanted to be over my knee or the bed for a "serious" spanking.

I'm a very gentle man, and would never do anything to cause her pain, but I also believe that the greatest gift you can give to someone is to give them what they feel they really need. So I've become a "top" and she has introduced me to the submissive "bottom" that was in her all this time. We have learned what really turns her on through experimentation and attending several spanking parties.

She has a very high tolerance, and enjoys the hand, paddles, floggers, leather - even the cane. And she loves to be turned over on her back to have her pussy spanked with my hand or a riding crop. All this makes her VERY wet and ready to be taken.

I'll never be a natural spanko, but I love giving her what turns her on, as the hottest thing in the world (to me) is a woman surrendering herself to sexual pleasure. And in return, she makes a special effort to cater to my special needs and desires.

It's a great way to spend retirement!

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"Spank me, make me suck cock and fuck me in the ass...please. Or I'll get my strap on out and do it to you."

I believe you must have been at our place this past Saturday evening! ;-)

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I'm an experienced switch, even do some pro domme work, but spanking is my favorite scene as either a top or a bottom.

Spank me, make me suck cock and fuck me in the ass...please. Or I'll get my strap on out and do it to you.

Springfield VA
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face slapping is on my limit list. It simply will cause me to go into fight mode. I won't tolerate it. I come out swinging. It's an animal thing.

For some women it's apparently ok. I haven't heard of guys getting it...or select chicks.

I suspect that's up a few rungs from spanking. ;)

BiFem_Top

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"Is enjoying being spanked so far out there"

I missed this the first time around.

Good Lord, NO. It's very, very, moderate play at best.

Out there, is REALLY out there. It involves things like fish hooks, scat, an who knows what else.

really beginner's play...spanking

Bifem_Top

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Look for local OTK groups.

There are many hand positions that can be used.

Cupped, Flat, Flailing, Hit and grab, Hit and remove hand Hit and leave hand (makes the pain less)

oh, let me wax poetic

BiFem_Top spanked plenty of chick ass in my day. ;)

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Mine doesn't like to inflict pain either, but will occasionally just because I'm in the mood for it...BUT...

When in a group situation, if there is a partner who is administering a great spanking, my husband will offer my limits to that person (usually it's a matter of him saying, "you can spank harder, she likes it"), or the person spanking will get that nod he's looking for to "go ahead." That's the best scenario, when I give myself over to the control of my husband and anyone who wants to be the tool of pleasure/pain.

Doesn't happen a lot, but when it does, it's very erotic and exciting.

Gina

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I actually experiment more with this with the before mentioned playmate then my husband. He will push more then hubby will, while still being in tune to what I'm enjoying and when to pull back a bit. Hubby tends to pull back a bit when he should push a bit, the whole not wanting to hurt me thing gets in the way. Heck he doesn't even like the pain he inflicts upon me by doing my waxing for me ;)

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while I really am not a BDSM girl, I do love being spanked by one of my male playmates while he is in me from behind. He has huge hands too, so they leave quite a mark on my rather white ass. Last time he and I played was alone and we had a great session of spanking in our play went home (actually we were just over at the barn lol) and hubby got to see the hand prints all over me, made for a fun session with him as well!

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You girls are tough cookies, let me tell you!!


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