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TOPIC: finding someone who enjoys giving a spanking
Created by: hotsue
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Is enjoying being spanked so far out there.The best spanking I have received came from a women.
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The spankings from what I have seen have a two fold effect. One the moderate "pain" releases endorphins in the body to relax and excite the body, (if that particular thing is a turn on) and the act of being controlled is enough to make most women, (again if they like it) sexually aroused. Most women know that they are emotional creatures and they want to be with a man that can "handle" them when they misbehave. Being open to that and understanding that to me is not kinky or weird as much as it is "enlightened to what really excites a person. From what I have seen it seems to be due in a lot of cases to something that might have happened when they were young. Understood and used correctly it can be a very exciting situation for both parties.

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Oh, I agree! I adore and love the entire bdsm lifestyle, I really do. I have nothing but respect for the trust and love it takes for the D/s. It is amazing, the mental "power" the D has over the s, and this is the power that the s gives to the D.

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Spankings are great, my Sister sub and I get them all the time when we have been good girls but when we aren't the ridding crop comes out. When my Dom's other sub comes over that's the first thing she gets and if I get to watch I get all excited. I guess we're a little kinky that way.

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In the past I have really disliked spanking. Like, if you spanked me at the wrong time...oye. However, in my evolution as a person and my moving past issues from my childhood regarding my mother who was physically abused...I have grown to enjoy them very much to a degree. Not on my left though haha....my left hip joint is bad so that does more than good stick. My right side though, i do enjoy a nice slap to that ass.

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my girl loves to be spanked hard , she likes a belt ,then stop fuck her a bit and then belt accross the ass until its red andshe is squirming .. so hot

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And dont forget the back of the thighs when you spank. It seems that appears to be a very sensitive spot for many and can make a girl really squirm quite well that can handle the sensation.

Locking her hands in yours behind her back as you spank also seems to provide a sense of helplessness as their bottom becomes red. It always seems to lead to a bit more gsquirming and a greater smile from me :-D

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Heeheehee, you got it! Now the hair pulling....well now your talking my language!

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Spankings??? Just Spankings???

I love spanking and hair pulling, also a girl that grabs a handful of hair when she wants a lip lock is a real turn on. I built a rep with spankings so I usually don't have to ask, the girls that love it line up after hearing a few good wacks from across the room. Not a good idea in vanilla clubs though.

Rubbing is important, but also remember to cup the hand to get that loud pol without causing pain. Licking the the backside makes the sound louder too.

I like being wacked on the arse too, it's a good way to get my attention when my thoughts wander. Shell, let me know when the mood strikes, I promise not to touch the ceiling before delivering your bad girl penance.

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Gina I agree, Dan knows your limits. And I do not think you are as moody a person by nature as I am though. I don't think Jay ever would unless he was absolutely sure as to what mood I was in because even if its a guy I just met...you slap me hard and you may get me standing up and going dude I would advise you against hitting my ass like that again lmfao. Seriously. I don't know, its just me I guess. I get into "kinks" but its best to have me tell you to slap my ass vs. taking the initiative in doing it on your own lol. But you have my ass face down and I hear she can take it I'd probably say take WHAT. LOL.

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Shells, bite me."

Whatever G, you'd like it too much heehee.

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TOPIC: finding someone who enjoys giving a spanking