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TOPIC: Top Sexual Fantasies for Women
Created by: Jason685
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Stranger Sex;

Group Sex;

Exhibitionism;

Male Domination;

Being Sexually Ravaged;

Girl on Girl;

Being Paid (ie stripper or prostitute);

Threesome;

Using a strap-on;

Rape;

Swinging and BDSM are both ways we play with our sexual fantasies. It is interesting that fantasies are a lot about being sexually used or sexually using others. Some of the best sex I've ever had comes from playing with these sexual fantasies and energies. Many swingers already play with domination and submission by using blindfolds, spanking, exhibitionism etc.;

To learn more about how common these fantasies are, look into the books by Nancy Friday. Her books explore the common themes found in the fantasies of many women. If you have domination and submission fantasies you may find more fun by exploring the BDSM side of you.;

Some women are disturbed by these fantasies and think something is wrong with them. Accepting these fantasies as common and even normal, give women permission to explore and discover what works for them.;

What has been your experience? Do you have any fantasies you want to share?

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My big fantasy is to blindfolded my hubby while he is tide up and hopeless have a Bi-male coming and suck his cock very slowly!! till he start enjoying himself just to think about it make me so wet!!

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For me I would love to be man handled by a group of men. The more the better. They must tell me what to do and just take what they want...

Auckland New Zealand
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My #1 fantsay as of right now is sensory deprivation.....

Something about being tied up blindfolded and ear plugs or ear buds to music) and o lay being able to rely on the touch the person is giving me....whether it's punishments or rewards.... Seems so hot...

And I'm always up for being tied up and spanked... Being watched Is awesome just as watching others is a real big turn on...

Gray LA
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@OP. As I was reading your list I thought how cool it would be to have your wife to be a paid whore. That one will just have to remain in fantasy land. BTW thanks for adding one more layer of depravity to my twisted mind LMFAO

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For me, all my male fantasies revolve around being dominated by my male partner. When I fantasize about being with another woman it's more gentle and sisterly like. Even the spanking is not "domination" but a tool with which we are using to get each other off. I guess subconsciously I just have different needs/desires from males vs females.


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All of my fantasies incorporate being with men that are completely in control sexually. I do not think of specific scenarios, I just enjoy the idea of his taking what he wants.


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two42lovers - I agree with taken/used sexually (in a gentle, caring, safe way).

Even my vanilla wife who would never conciously admit to bondage gets really hot if I take her semi clothed - top on but pushed up, pulling her panties aside. Also when I restrain her wrists, pin her arms by her head. She will signal she wants this by putting her arms by/above her head.

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The most common desire amongst the BDSM'ers that we associate with, is to come across people who actually understand BDSM and not those who bill themselves as experts but through their own words provide evidence that they're anything but.


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Jason685, a retired Police Detective I know has investigated sexual crimes that the female is living a fantacy. It is after the fact that they, "change their mind'.

Sexual fantasise of woman is something to talk about. Sometimes it leads to Police involvement.

Thornton CO
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The most common desire among the women I've met is to be bound and taken/used sexually. Tied and fucked. Blindfolds are popular too.

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TOPIC: Top Sexual Fantasies for Women