Swinging and BDSM: Swingers Discussion 1544131061

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User Details are only visible to members.	mntn ~ we've had some luck here finding couples that mix BDsM and swinging. Take a good look at pics and keep an eye out for subtle hints in profiles and email them. Don't wait for them to email you. ;) There are probably more people here that have an interest in both than you expect ~ but just as has been mentioned here, b/c it's a bit misunderstood, it's not anything blantant in their profiles. Kat and Rick ~ we've found that even if couples aren't into BDsM, they often are intrigued. If they have no experience, Mr. makes it clear that we don't always play that way and that I'm subbie to only him and while we're more than happy to show them a scene, they won't be playing like that with me. He handles it in a friendly way and we haven't had any problems. It's just off limits. With experienced couples, he let's it be known that the only way I'm subbing to the Dom of the couple is thru him, b/c he's told me to. So far, no issues there either. I think that if you're really clear about what is and isn't OK, you can make it work no matter what people's experience level is. Good luck!
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (497 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We never used to mix our BDSM and swinging. Recently we've figured that if offends somebody then that's their problem. We are going to play the way we want. If it limits our opportunity then so be it.
Pittsburgh PA			Username hidden (14605 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Unfortunately I have become used to traveling to find D/s and bdsm people to play with..... It's hit or miss i swinging-add the bdsm and you certainly narrow your prospects. Peace
Floral Park NY			Username hidden (55 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Never been to the Mohegan Sun. Might have to make a run up and check it out sometime
Harrisburg PA			Username hidden (52 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We'd love to find a nice local D/s couple that also enjoys swinging. Combining the two. Over the years we've found most prefer one or the other. We go to a local swingers club as well as attend a local munch group and enjoy them both.
Harrisburg PA			Username hidden (52 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I have found that either most people will pass our profile up because it is something they don't understand or they think that all we want to do is get together and beat each other. When we are together alone or at a fetish club then yes we are in the D/S role. If we are entertaining our swinger friends then we are just normal swingers. He isn't dominate over anyone but me and no one touches me without his permission and unless I have done something wrong I don't deserve to be punished. Especially by someone else. I find that most men want to convince me that my dom is not good enough or that I am being mistreated. This comes from people who play the S/M role but does not live the lifestyle. I am sharing this in hopes that people will open up and try to understand the differences people have in their sexuality. Freedom of expression I say!
Gulfport MS			Username hidden (2 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	The fusion works great for me. I'm primarily a sensual and intellectual Dominant aka D/s. S&M never intrigued me (which tends to scare swingers to death). A misunderstanding of the terms is the problem.
Rockville MD			Username hidden (615 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thought I would add my 2 cents as a single guy in the scene and the lifestyle. I don't blatantly advertise that I am Dominant in my profile. To be truthful, I have been told repeatedly by submissive women that there is no need as there is no doubt of my dominance in my writing. Interesting, always said that if you are, those that need to know, know. It also seems that more 'vanilla' swingers see confidence, but not always the dominance. Some do see it, but the fact that it's not plainly stated makes them feel safer at first, yet they almost always ask me about it...if I am, and how i integrate that into play. Some that I play with are not into it at all, and I echo what has been said here by the couples-it's a PART of me, not all of me. It's fun when I can introduce curious couples to this play, and every once in a while I run into a woman that is a little more advanced in bdsm, but I am just as happy to go to a party and swing or spend some sexy time alone with a special friend. I have been into bdsm since 1978, when I was introduced to it by an older lover. I was married for 25 years after that and never once played.... Then, once we split I got back into it....like I never left. You might call me an "Olde World Dominant" (dislike the word "Dom") and I am a 'sexual torturer' loving dominant type... Just my two cents....
Floral Park NY			Username hidden (55 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We love the BDSM as a occasional diversion from regular play. BDSM seems to really heighten play plus who doesn't love a good spanking once in a while? Everyone is right it does seem BDSM and the Lifestyle don't mix too often with the masses. So any PA couples with similar interests let us know, or any long distance couples if you have great dungeon or bondage pics we would love to see :) B&A
Lake Harmony PA			Username hidden (89 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	You do know your making us want to move to your areas to live in....lol.....hmmmm,maybe a cross country tour one day
Thomasville NC			Username hidden (8 post)

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