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User Details are only visible to members.	Once at a dungeon we used to frequent, I was having a very "toppy" night, mentally. I guess I was in serious headspace... anyways, one of the single males who frequented the club brought up some friends of his who went to a swinger's club in New Orleans. He started going off on how boring and cliche swinging was, and how he lost respect for his friends knowing that. I ended up calling him out on the mat for that, asking him how he could sit in the middle of a club that was having a shibari demonstration, and be so closed minded about his friends' kinks. His answer: "Who ever said that people in alternative lifestyles had to be open minded?" I had no response to that. I seriously couldn't understand the sense of that statement, so I just kind of stopping being near him. But in my humble opinion, if you participate in a niche kink that generally requires a special kind of social networking (like these kinds of websites, or clubs with special membership requirements), then you ought to be open minded to others. Maybe it's not the consensus view, but to me, it only makes sense.
New Market MD			Username hidden (193 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We also enjoy both swinging and bdsm. I'm also a member of FetLife, and find it both amusing and irritating that there's so much antipathy directed at certain fetishes, some of which are actually quite tame. My fetish is ok, yours is weird. Sheesh...
Trenton MI			Username hidden (105 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We've been integrating the two lifestyles for years and enjoy it. At the swing club we go to we tone it down, but those familiar with the D/s lifestyle do recognize the subtle signs and mannerisms. We're always interested in meeting and getting with others in the D/s lifestyle for fun.
Harrisburg PA			Username hidden (52 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We have encountered the exact same thing in our experiences in BDSM Clubs. There seemed to be this pervasive sense that sex somehow "cheapened" the purity of the BDSM environment, which just baffled us. Though honestly, this was stronger with the S&M/Impact crowd than the D/s crowd, who seemed to more easily integrate sharing of partners as a form of objectification.
New Market MD			Username hidden (193 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Ok but fucking with someone mind almost the same thing as a tease. Cause ur touching a nd teasing every part of the body. Make their mind swim with thoughts of want you might or will do. The bondage part just helps u get to the places that in other word not restrant. You can get to and send them into over drive.
Mesa AZ			Username hidden (4 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	When.....not if...darling!
George School PA			Username hidden (250 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Ohhhhhh! Joyful trust us...if we ever meet again....all hell is going to break loose :)
Springfield MA			Username hidden (90 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Nursing 101.....if you were just a little closer.....we'd take you up on that offer :)
George School PA			Username hidden (250 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We have been swinging for 4 yrs and have loved every minute of it, but we do agree with you about the judgements others make about d/s relationships. We have recently begun with d/s and bondage. We actually went on to another site to explore that with others. We realized there are boundaries that each group (swinger vs bdsm) has and we have found both groups tend to not cross lines with the other. But if you know of any couples in our area who like to share and play, let us know!
Springfield MA			Username hidden (90 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	non swinger think swingers are strange. swingers think bdsm poeple are werid .bdsm poeple iam a perv because i want to fuck some body wife .and non swingers wants to fuck me. around and around and around it goes bubububye
Kingston TN			Username hidden (1927 post)

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