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TOPIC: Some Advice or Guidance
Created by: justlqqkin
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We are new to this, and I have a very good idea of what to do, however, I cannot find a femdom site that has some guidance or training to be a good dom to my husband. We have experimented, but I want to really show him some things, and I would like to gather a ton of info, before we start.

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Lucky that is so true. I think that in bdsm there are good and bad apples like everywhere. I am interested in the culture and have talked with subs. Their biggest complaint are "doms" who think they are dom but are really bully assholes who think "oh geez, here is a chick that WANTS me to abuse her" and have no idea or training in the lifestyle. Here in Austin there is a group that literally trains doms in how and what to do, things like that. I like that because honestly when my hands are restrained behind my back I can't fight much and can get hurt. So its important that a dom understands what to do and that this is not about a person allowing you to abuse them. Shell


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The Frugal Domme, all one word is a good site

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One of the most important things to understand when starting into a Dom/sub relationship is that as a Dom, you are responsible for the well being of your sub. Have a safe word and learn your sub's signs of distress. Overdoing it in the beginning can be disasterous.

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A friend of mine who is in a bdsm couple told me about castlerealm dot com its a great site that is very informative on bdsm both dom, domme and sub. I really found it interesting. Shelly


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Search for "Elise Sutton". She has a fantastic free site and also a subscription service if you want more info. I believe the name of her site it female supremacy but either term should get you there.

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We are new to this, and I have a very good idea of what to do, however, I cannot find a femdom site that has some guidance or training to be a good dom to my husband. We have experimented, but I want to really show him some things, and I would like to gather a ton of info, before we start.

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TOPIC: Some Advice or Guidance