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TOPIC: SUBS Have you Ever been disobediant on purpose
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Goodness i think i could go on and on concerning this topic. As with any relationship there are variances in what people like, want, and do. I had a Dom at one point in my life who found it endearing if i was being a SAM to get his attention. He appropriately would call me princess.

In my experience whenever i felt the need to act up it was because i wasn't getting from my Master what i needed. Of course i am not saying it is the right thing i should have done. The best thing to do is to respectfully and politely bring it up to your Dom. I learned in time that if i needed to do these things to get the attention i needed that i just wasn't with the right person.

As for punishment the best thing to do for me when i behaved this way was to ignore me. It definatey made me think twice before i did it again. All in all Craig and i don't have any of these problems. I am never intentionally disrespectful or disrespectful with a purpose. If i ever act disrespectful its because i let my emotions get away from me.

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That probably happens in a lot of relationships we think. The key is to deal with the disobedience appropriately and that can include doing something or not doing something which in this case is synonymous.

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Thrill. smiling. There was so much amazement in the scene community seeing me sub. They didn't even recognize me! No one believed it.

Sigh. I sub to virtually no one. There have been two. One that was. One that I wish was.

I've been very lucky that way.

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Thrill:

You would NOT like my punishment. I would not play with you. I would ignore you.

Playing is a reward not punishment.

I also would not tolerate you asking to play. I was trained that way. I asked my Mentor, very early on, to play. He made sure I didn't like it. I was very confused. He trained me.

"Submission begins when you are NOT getting what you want." It's true.

To answer the question. No. I never violated his rules, requests, deliberately. Why do that? If I submit. I submit.

I don't play with SAMs, Brats, and the like. They waste my energy. My Mentor described wishing I would misbehave. He LOVED the process of teaching a sub who was boss. Be glad you never did that with someone like him. Paybacks are hell.

very well behaved, compliant, Mischief

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