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TOPIC: Maybe this is why bdsm and swinging seems at odds
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I just do not understand why people cannot disagree, or admit to not understanding...in a polite way. I don't get the hard part of saying I may not do things like you and may not agree...but you have the right to have your differing opinion. Anyways. Yes, PP, sometimes people do not understand "no". Yes, I could say no. I say red so there is no way my intention is mis-understood. No, there is no difference between saying no and red. Why do we do this then? Because we choose to.
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You might wonder why no one seems disposed to engage you in discussion of your points.

thats because alot of people have him blocked so we dont have to see the crap he posts.
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Seems the security guard at one of PP parties had a hard time keeping his hands off a guest and didn't understand the word no

"My fiance and I just wanted to go someplace where we could have people watch us. We thought this would be a great venue group because they have a system with a bracelet that tells other people at the party you're to be watched and not touched. Yeah, nobody pays attention to it, not even one of the guys involved in security."

I guess not everyone respects the word NO

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Except I do "get it" Jason
Just because I don't buy the rhetoric doesn't mean I don't "get it"
I know full well the story of how "The sub is in control" because if they ask you to stop you will,,,,ummm....do you know a lot of people who won't stop when asked to?
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Jason,

"I learned long ago never to wrestle with a pig. You get dirty, and besides, the pig likes it."

- George Bernard Shaw
Kitty Hawk NC
 
 
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Actually Jason they are very well articulated, and if you are provoked by my opinion and the logic behind it, that is outside my control
I simply pointed out there is no difference, be it in moral, ethical or legal terms, between a "safe word" in the scene and a simple "stop" or "no" in the real world.
If you disagree and can tell me why, by all means do so.
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Hah!

You should check out this no neck's posting history. He's an "expert" at everything and is detested by the entire forum. 50%+ of the active forum participants have this harasser blocked so that they don't have to be subjected to his vitriol.
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PP
You spend so much energy trying to seem smart but you only reveal that your humble opinion is anything but humble. Your points are not very well articulated and they have an air of condescension. That makes you seem like more of a provocateur than a positive contributor to the forum. IMHO.
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Who is harassing anyone?
Who called you a foolish girl, imprisoned...one who allows a man to abuse you?
I never said anything close to that about you or anyone else
What I said was that the "rules" of the scene simply mirror the rules of society, there is nothing mystical or magical about them
There are universal "safe words"..."STOP and NO"
Someone complying with them does not make them a wise and benevolent Dom, it keeps they from being charged with a felony.
People who enjoy the scene should enjoy it, but lets be real, that's all I am saying.
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