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And on another note I did meet the Dom that i lent her to.

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Well it been a while since we been following this thread. And just to confirm that lending Bonnie out to another DOM may be in my frustration that she is a BRAT and does not do as I say . I think that is because we are a married couple and she does not take our Dom/sub relationship seriously.

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Obviously it does depend on the dynamics of your own relationship. You are the one who needs to decide what is/isn't ok. I do have one question. Are you sending her or was it in anyway her choice? I have lent out my subs before. It was very hot. I was sending her. It was not necessarily her choice. So in a way even thou I wasn't there I was topping her. I told her to do what ever he said and to take any "punishment/reward" " he chose. I reviewed with him what was/wasn't ok as well as a few things I wanted him to do to her. All of this fyi worked out great

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I have put her through scenes with others. but to loan her out to another Dom, I would have to know him as well as I know myself to even consider. Giving someone else that measure of freedom to assert control and power over my most prized possession?? Let's face it, so much about the dynamic is built on a foundation of trust and I don't give that out to just anyone.

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My husband is lending me tomorrow night to some dom guys for a intense gangbang. No BDSM other than rough play. I am ready for it. Of course my husband/dom will be there for my safety.

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Thanks Jason. I have found one Dom and his wife and with the little amount of time I have left in this area, that should work. I appreciate everyone's help though.

Alexandria VA
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Tiffany Try fetlife dot c.. it is a free site for kinky people. There you should be able to find people, groups, events and play spaces in your area.

Green Bay WI
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We have done this a lot and she gets the intensity and the extra attention she needs. We never do it with anyone that we do not thoroughly know and trust. Otherwise, you end up with the stories like the staplers above. We have had access to Dom men for many years. That extra zing is important to her.

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Thanks bilady. I have been chatting with someone who has been telling me more about BDSM. I think that there must be a couple of different kinds of relationships. It appears that there is a dom/sub relationship where the dom doesn't necessarily call his sub names but does take total control which would be good. It also appears that there are those that call the sub names such as bitch, talk kind of turns me on but it isn't necessary. My husband does a great job in satisfying me and we have a lot of fun with our different fantasies. But this is something I am hoping to do soon.

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More than once I've loaned my sub to other masters and she has always come back home for one last fu. Only once did she come home and complain about the abusive she went through. He wanted to use a staple gun on her breasts and nipples. That was after he used a bullwhip on her nipples and pussy. I had a few worked with this ASSHOLE. I told him before she went over to his dungon to respect her safe word, witch he did not. Since then his slave has left him and now lives in our spare bedroom. She has scars on her that shouldn't be there

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