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TOPIC: Lending her to other dom guys!!
Created by: bonnieandclydect
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Does any Dom guys sent their sub out with other Dom's ? Tonight is her first night out with a very Dom guy!!

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In my own private Idaho, today, I can't see sending my sub to a Dom. It's not part of my make up so far. I only speak for myself and my view. If it works for others that's great. Each to their own.

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Sending your wife to fuck another man alone is completely different than sending your sub to another Dom

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New Orleans LA
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Just wondering . I don't have a problem with her being alone with a guy and she has been but I know them well. I have state before I have seen men do terrible things. I don't trust our half of the human race

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Depends who she is goin with ! We have not found a worthy Dom guy in a while. Most are young punks , LOL

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@ OP. Just wandering do you not go with her

Charlie

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And on another note , shortly after she went out with this other Dom , he became BORN AGAIN , LOL.

Danbury CT
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And on another note I did meet the Dom that i lent her to.

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Well it been a while since we been following this thread. And just to confirm that lending Bonnie out to another DOM may be in my frustration that she is a BRAT and does not do as I say . I think that is because we are a married couple and she does not take our Dom/sub relationship seriously.

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Obviously it does depend on the dynamics of your own relationship. You are the one who needs to decide what is/isn't ok. I do have one question. Are you sending her or was it in anyway her choice? I have lent out my subs before. It was very hot. I was sending her. It was not necessarily her choice. So in a way even thou I wasn't there I was topping her. I told her to do what ever he said and to take any "punishment/reward" " he chose. I reviewed with him what was/wasn't ok as well as a few things I wanted him to do to her. All of this fyi worked out great

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I have put her through scenes with others. but to loan her out to another Dom, I would have to know him as well as I know myself to even consider. Giving someone else that measure of freedom to assert control and power over my most prized possession?? Let's face it, so much about the dynamic is built on a foundation of trust and I don't give that out to just anyone.

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TOPIC: Lending her to other dom guys!!