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TOPIC: Lending her to other dom guys!!
Created by: bonnieandclydect
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Does any Dom guys sent their sub out with other Dom's ? Tonight is her first night out with a very Dom guy!!

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My husband is lending me tomorrow night to some dom guys for a intense gangbang. No BDSM other than rough play. I am ready for it. Of course my husband/dom will be there for my safety.

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Thanks Jason. I have found one Dom and his wife and with the little amount of time I have left in this area, that should work. I appreciate everyone's help though.

Alexandria VA
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Tiffany Try fetlife dot c.. it is a free site for kinky people. There you should be able to find people, groups, events and play spaces in your area.

Green Bay WI
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We have done this a lot and she gets the intensity and the extra attention she needs. We never do it with anyone that we do not thoroughly know and trust. Otherwise, you end up with the stories like the staplers above. We have had access to Dom men for many years. That extra zing is important to her.

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Thanks bilady. I have been chatting with someone who has been telling me more about BDSM. I think that there must be a couple of different kinds of relationships. It appears that there is a dom/sub relationship where the dom doesn't necessarily call his sub names but does take total control which would be good. It also appears that there are those that call the sub names such as bitch, talk kind of turns me on but it isn't necessary. My husband does a great job in satisfying me and we have a lot of fun with our different fantasies. But this is something I am hoping to do soon.

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More than once I've loaned my sub to other masters and she has always come back home for one last fu. Only once did she come home and complain about the abusive she went through. He wanted to use a staple gun on her breasts and nipples. That was after he used a bullwhip on her nipples and pussy. I had a few worked with this ASSHOLE. I told him before she went over to his dungon to respect her safe word, witch he did not. Since then his slave has left him and now lives in our spare bedroom. She has scars on her that shouldn't be there

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Tyffany

Just try it, you never know you might just like it and so will he. I'm not sure where to find this Dom but you could try one of the other sites. a l t. c o m might work but just be careful. If you lived closer I would say on over and lets see what you enjoy.

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stgalacouple

You are right, it seems many people go off on to another subject and forget about the original post. That being said I can tell you that I would never lend my sub out until I have met with and watched him with her or even his sub. The one thing everyone needs to remember is the safety of the sub is first and for most.

I think thou if a woman has a mate that isn't into this or just doesn't know where to begin then he should seek out a Dom or Master that he can learn from. I'm sure she would enjoy it and in time so would he.

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Tiffany, did you mean to say that you wanted to be lent out for a a day to a Dom? It looks like you typed that you wanted to be lent out to a sub...

St, yes the sub wife of a non-dominant man can have some frustrations depending on how things go. I always keep the hubby in the loop and in fact never play alone with her. That is all negotiable between the couple and I.

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I know some people aren't going to like this response, but in our experience it's accurate.

The original question was about doms lending their subs to other doms, which I take to mean sending the sub to play with another dom without the owner being there. In our experience, this seems to happen mostly when a dom is tired of his sub and is looking to end their relationship.

In reply, several people have mentioned non-dominant husbands allowing their wives to visit dominants to be sessioned -- mostly because those husbands aren't dominants nor are they interested in being dominant. At least in the short term, this doesn't seem to be dangerous to the relationship. In the longer term, the sub will have to come to grips with how important D/s is to her, and whether she is satisfied remaining in a relationship without it. Not an easy decision.

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