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TOPIC: Is your BDSM play planned or spur of the moment
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We are a kinda spur of the moment couple.. As she enjoys rough play a lot more than I do... But I am down to do whatever brings her pleasure.. Might have to do a little research to plan something and surprise her though someday!
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We're pretty spur of the moment when it is just us. If we're playing with another couple that enjoys it as well it is always planned.
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We'll do both. Often times when I get into a dominant mood, I'll have her put on her collar and we'll scene. I usually come up with the agenda on the spot.
And then often times we'll plan a protocol night, either just us or with another couple. These usually involve lots of planning... especially Fine Dining nights. |
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Dan usually comes up with an idea for our play, on occasion i do but it seems like when i do think of something, he turns it into something far superior.
on occasion things have to change for various reasons,. dan has a way of weaving a story or scenario causing my mind to get so caught up in it i cant think of anything else. Bel |
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I feel that it is generally the responsiblity of the Dom to have a plan and I usually do. That being said, my plan is usually an outline and I like to pay attention to what my sub is experiencing and alter the play accordingly.
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Round Rock TX |
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I generally let her let Me know shes ready for some Hard Play, then We'll discuss it some prior to the time, but then I generally play it by ear unless a request has been made for specific activities.
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Thornville OH |
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Sometimes I plan the "activities", other times I will let her pick out what toys she wants utilized. Either way works.
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sounds like great pre planning to me. From my end, it may feel spontaneous-even thou He has a rough idea of where He wants to go. Otherwise i may be lying there in a compromising position for too long while He gets things ready.....might get cold, etc. A little discomfort is fine, but hate to lose the mood.....esme
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TOPIC: Is your BDSM play planned or spur of the moment
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