Her Submissive Desires: Swingers Discussion 2138251041

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User Details are only visible to members.	Dominant man, The way my submissive has learned is by experience, trial and error, training with others, reading, playing and finding out what works. Contrary to what others have suggested, I feel a submissive can learn from others and can discover and develop their submissive nature. We have found that including a wide variety of other opinions, and types of play one can discover and nurture Not all things work equally well for either dominants or submissives so it is a path of discovery and experience. I for one enjoy the wide variety of diversity that is found in the bdsm community.
Green Bay WI			Username hidden (81 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Seduction You are the most judgmental person. There is no reason to disparage others path. You don't sound like very much fun to play with. It sounds like the only way to be a proper dominant is to do it your way. Have fun. I just hope others who are just discovering their dominance don't run into you as you will just put them down for not being your type of dominant. Apparently you are not even willing to help others learn. Very short sighted. It is fine to have your own path as others are free to find theirs. To suggest that others don't have or understand dominance is arrogance and hubris. Perhaps grace and consideration for others choices and opinions is too difficult for you. It is easier to put other down because you think you know how it is. You know how it is for you, but you don't know others and you have no basis for judging their capacity as a dominant. Yet you persist in insisting that the rest of us have only invalid opinions.
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User Details are only visible to members.	And that is precisely why there is so much of what is known as fluff BDSM, feel free to carry on.
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12187 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Seduction Thanks for not mentoring anyone. You wouldn't be any good at it. If you think you can't then you can't. I have been mentored and I have mentored others. Just because you can't see it doesn't mean it isn't possible. You are are the one who is limited by your thoughts.
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User Details are only visible to members.	These natures can be revealed. Therein lies the learning.
Daniels MD			Username hidden (336 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	* I am glad you weren't my mentor. * I would never offer my services to mentor anyone, some things can not be learned nor taught. They come from the gut, from who you are, not from what you what you imagine yourself to be.
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12187 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Seduction I guess you speak for everyone and are the ultimate voice of wisdom. I am glad you weren't my mentor. You can learn dominance. But if it comforts you to think that you can't, have at it.
Green Bay WI			Username hidden (81 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	May I suggest that the discussion about if dominance or submission can be taught be started in a new thread. I would like to see the conversation focus on how ladies who are in a relationship explore their submissive desires.
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User Details are only visible to members.	You can learn to wield a whip, you can learn bondage, you can learn anything that pertains to a scene. You can not learn dominance. But if it comforts you to think that you can, have at it. Dominance like submission, comes from within, a personality trait. It's how you live, it's how you think, it's how you function every moment of your life. It isn't a feature that you can turn on and off.
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User Details are only visible to members.	I did not say that you can create dominance where dominance does not exist. But simply because one has dominant DNA does not create an ability to be a good or successful dominant. There are many dominants I have seen who do not seem to know what they are doing. They think because they are dominant then they have no need for instruction or learning. I think you can learn to be dominant just as you can learn almost anything for which you have an inclination. Maybe it just semantics but... I believe people can learn dominance and dominance can be revealed through teaching and mentoring. This is what happened to me, so I know for a fact it is possible. Was I not dominant before and now I am? By what magic did that occur? I have a dominant personality that did not have expression. Domination in practice is what I was taught and learned. Again, is this just semantics or an actually disagreement?
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