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* I am glad you weren't my mentor. *

I would never offer my services to mentor anyone, some things can not be learned nor taught. They come from the gut, from who you are, not from what you what you imagine yourself to be.

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Seduction I guess you speak for everyone and are the ultimate voice of wisdom. I am glad you weren't my mentor.

You can learn dominance. But if it comforts you to think that you can't, have at it.

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May I suggest that the discussion about if dominance or submission can be taught be started in a new thread. I would like to see the conversation focus on how ladies who are in a relationship explore their submissive desires.

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You can learn to wield a whip, you can learn bondage, you can learn anything that pertains to a *scene.*

You can not learn dominance. But if it comforts you to think that you can, have at it.

Dominance like submission, comes from within, a personality trait. It's how you live, it's how you think, it's how you function every moment of your life. It isn't a feature that you can turn on and off.

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I did not say that you can create dominance where dominance does not exist. But simply because one has dominant DNA does not create an ability to be a good or successful dominant. There are many dominants I have seen who do not seem to know what they are doing. They think because they are dominant then they have no need for instruction or learning. I think you can learn to be dominant just as you can learn almost anything for which you have an inclination. Maybe it just semantics but... I believe people can learn dominance and dominance can be revealed through teaching and mentoring. This is what happened to me, so I know for a fact it is possible. Was I not dominant before and now I am? By what magic did that occur? I have a dominant personality that did not have expression. Domination in practice is what I was taught and learned. Again, is this just semantics or an actually disagreement?

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Oh well, nice try pal. Maybe telling anyway.

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No, I objected to what was posted by Jason.

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Seduction, do you take issue with my last post about the difference between the DNA side versus the being taught how to express it?

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You can not, I repeat, CAN NOT learn dominance through *training*

One simply cannot be whom they are not!

You can not train a personality type into someone.

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Jason, I look at being dominant or submissive to be a part of someone's DNA, like it is to be gay or straight or bisexual. That cannot be taught. You do hit the nail on the head that people who are dom or sub can be shown how to express it. Does that make sense?

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