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I wonder how many dom/dommes are Aries, Taurus etc....
Has a study ever been done?
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You are born with it or you are not. You cannot "learn" to be dom/domme. Now, I know that my friend's group in ATX has a mentoring program where experienced doms "teach" techniques and such to newer doms. However, domination itself is something one either has or they do not. I have tried to be domme....it just doesn't work for anything. Like Gina said, a dom just has the ability to do what they do. They just do.
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There can be 100's of people in a room. When a dominant walks in, I feel him in my guts of guts, without him saying as much as a word.

Well said, M. I can too, and it usually goes beyond to his voice. Like my husband's. He has no excitement in his voice, just commanding presence. Subs are drawn to it.

And sometimes there's just a look and you just...know.

G.
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Thank you and well said, it is all about trust between your dom and sub.
There are so many degrees and levels to it.
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Having been a sex slave to one of the best dominate males I learned much. It's funny now I have men that play with me ask me to teach them to be dominate. Sometimes they end up being spectacular doms! Though do you believe it can be learned or is it just a natural thing for some?
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