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User Details are only visible to members.	BDSM is between the two who are doing it. There are no rules its all about going with what feels right with each other. Everyone is just getting upset about a whole lotta of nothing on this post, jeeze wish I never posted it, lol. And as far as wishy washy he hardly is, and as far as not being a real dom, well now you wouldnt know till you've experienced him and lived as his sex slave. Hmmmmm my opinion cause I KNOW, is he is the real deal. Go on now bash away at me for that one! LOL
Pittsgrove NJ			Username hidden (490 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Nov 1st: "I'm done here" Nov 10th: "now im really done here" I don't know anything about BDSM but this guy seems a little wishy-washy to me. lol
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11415 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	You people are still going on about this? Really? relax I think you all just need to smoke a joint and move on. Go fuck or something be productive... this is the second time i ever even been on this dam forum. And like i said in the begining il just get myself into troube here lol. start a new thread or something....K now im really done here.. this is drama i can deff do without..good luck to all of you....
Elmer NJ			Username hidden (6 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	laughs hard and strikes a pose.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (497 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	damn. You would not go to a munch and discuss things such as swinging as you would not go to a M&G and discuss a munch unless you had a specific reason to do so. They are not intermixed. This has been established. Swall tail, if he was sending you a personal message...perhaps private email is the most effective route. BDSM is a very personal thing to me and to most that engage in it. You actually rarely know when a couple is in the bdsm lifestyle unless you know them in that capacity.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23612 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Did I make a spelling error after a long day? LOL!
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (497 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	It always amazes me when people who are new to any forum decide that they are experts above and beyond everyone else who they have never met. That said... I agree w/ Seduction. Dominant is what you are. Dominate is what you do. People either are or are not Dominant. People can learn to dominate. I think that if Dominants want to be sexually Dominant w/in the BDsM lifestyle, they need to learn how to dominate. Someone can be vanilla sexually Dominant. When BDsM play becomes involved, it's plain and simple that someone can get badly hurt b/c of lack of knowledge on both parts ~ the Dom's and the subs. I don't believe that knowing what's too much, in that area of play, is natural to people ~ nor should it be learned by trial and error alone. Some trial and error will enter into it b/c each D/s relationship and it's limits are different and an important part of that relationship is pushing boundaries ~ which in it's simplest form is going to involve trial and error, at times. As for there only being "wannabe's" here, I can't bite my tongue. Back up and realize that until you've actually met the posters here, you won't know who is a wannabe and who isn't. In the interest of keeping things here friendly, fun and functional ~ best to err on the side of caution and if you feel the need to call someone out about something specific, do so. Sweeping generalizations don't work BECAUSE they are sweeping generalizations... and b/c you haven't interacted w/ people here, there's no way for you to know what's what. It really bothers me when someone comes into the sandbox for the first time, tries to kick down everyone's castle and exclaims "Y'all don't know how to build one! Now, I'm leaving."
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User Details are only visible to members.	You can learn to be a Dom, to go through the motions, do it for money, etc., but to truly be dominate? You have to be wired that way, its not a learnable trait. You're either an alpha by nature or you're not
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User Details are only visible to members.	I cant imagine domination with out sex Damn that would suck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Pittsgrove NJ			Username hidden (490 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Hmmmmmmmmmmmm jeeze All I know is damn I love you to fuck me when your done dominating me Master!
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