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TOPIC: Difficult to find swingers who are also interested in BDSM
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Knightdale NC
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It's always the Ozzy & Harriet types you have to look out for...

I suppose it's part of our psychology, but we're such integrally social animals that we just like to have other people around when we do "the stuff"... be it with a collar or without. I totally understand, however, how people can have a need to compartmentalize different aspects of their relationship and play. Totally valid.

Our play can be personal or performance, it really all depends. The best thing is that we tend not to stress about it, and of course we always communicate thoroughly.

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As a full time D/s couple (think Ozzy and Harriet, not Ozzy Osborne) we are always on the lookout for couples in similar lives. We usually look for the very subtle hints rather than the grand disclaimers. We just found that these couples tend to be more adult and discrete about D/s and BDSM in general. To date we have struck up conversations online with a few couples but have yet to cross paths with a couple we would meet in person (damn BDSM people are FREAKY! :) but we continue to keep our eyes peeled. To date? Been damn fortunate. Have met some very nice people here on SLS in particualr.

Just my two cents

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MrsMuir and I were talking about this the other night. Sex is such a huge part (integral actually as I am a 'sexual sadist'-ask what that means if you don't know) that it simply cannot be separated from what 'we do'. Our only real decision was to share that with others or not. Did not for quite some time. Now MrsMuir wants to experience more-there usually comes that time when a submissive woman 'catches fire' and wants to experience 'everything'-and I am proud to guide her on her journey of discovery. :) Besides, it's SO much more fun to fuck someones body AND mind, don't you think?

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We remember when we were new to bdsm and we were looking for others. We seek to find those who want to learn more. Then we can teach them how we like to play and help them move forward. We never try to talk anyone into bdsm. We look for willing partners. Works so far. I think bdsm and swinging are a perfect fit. They complement each other well.

Green Bay WI
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I would never let my Sub of 21 years play like that with someone else. So even though we live it 24-7 we would never bring it into our swinging side.

I have not ever asked her but my guess is she would not be able to trust another master to play with her and not hurt her.

Houston MS
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Jason685, Welcome to the forums.

Tampa FL
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Even though BDSM is filtering more into the mainstream, there are still a lot of misconceptions about it. Most people want to believe it's all about what they see online, or in the movies. Those that are actually living that lifestyle know there are so many different aspects of it, and it's really hard to explain it all to the "nillas".

Good luck with your search.

~N

Daphne AL
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We are very out front in our profile and I have created a newsletter entitled BDSM + Swing = More Fun. So far, I have found people who are interested and some who already have bdsm. It seems that of those who are interested will go further. Our profile and newsletter pretty much filter our those who have no interest.

Green Bay WI
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@StarryNights22,

Yeah, we've come to that conclusion. We will just keep it for us.

Besides, we've discovered we want to make friends that we can hang with AND have sex with. It's changed our outlook and the type of people we are searching for now on this site.

T

Vancouver WA
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