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TOPIC: Can a Submissive Woman Also Be a Feminist
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Ummm yes we can. Because I am attracted to men that take control and are in the lead does NOT mean that I am a doormat to be walked all over. The submissive is in control of the situation, and if a sub ever feels like she has no safe word or input, she may want to look at their D/s relationship. I love being submissive to my husband and lovers in the bedroom. I crave it. However, if he does anything that I am uncomfortable with or do not like...I will voice my opinion.

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Or can a feminist woman be sexually submissive? This is a big issue for some. Does feminism preclude being sexually submissive OR should feminism give all women the right to choose their sexual preferences? Many are conflicted and confused on this point. Here is an interesting article on this topic. Here is one quote: "Submissive kinky women are far from the shrinking violets that BDSM's critics have characterized them as being and in many cases, they are women who know exactly what they want in a relationship." This article includes quotes from some of the top women in BDSM and sexual freedom. It is very well articulated. I think you may learn something.

Alternet d*t o*g - written by Alex Henderson entitled "Women who like to be dominated in bed. Talking to BDSM submissives."

I find that a lot of swingers are confused or conflicted about bdsm because it seems so contrary to what we are being taught about how to treat others. It seems so un-PC. Understanding and accepting our bdsm urges give us the freedom to explore and enjoy whatever is our particular desire. This article and others that I will be recommending can give you insight and perhaps the courage to step out and explore your fantasies.

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TOPIC: Can a Submissive Woman Also Be a Feminist