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TOPIC: Being a switch
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| It is complicated my state of mind, sometimes I will feel I want to dominate someone who I've just been chatting with for sometime. He shows up and then I feel I can't I totally fall into the submissive roll. Other times I want to turn a male out tie his cock and balls, train him to lick me the way I want, totally dominate his ass. I dont really know if I am naturally dominate, or submissive it is sooooo complicated! lol |
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I just take things as they happen and enjoy it. It was complicated and sort of confusing trying to play a top or bottom role but i just relaxed and let it happen the way it will and enjoyed the opportunity. I like to reverse roles during a meeting and that is fun for me. It makes the encounter more exciting. I'm naturally androgynous so I guess it goes with that territory. Only been with natal females and male to female Transexuals and it work rather well one on one but I've no idea how it would work with couples. Haven't found any that are really interested in an androgynous male to female switch.
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Deb tends to like to be physically dominated , but not mentality. she likes to be used like a sex toy.but wants to tell you how to do it.
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I agree that it isn't that uncommon to be a switch. I tend to be more submissive with men, but take charge with women. Different circumstances call for different approaches.
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My wife is like you, but tends to top from the bottom.
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New Orleans LA |
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Being a switch is not that uncommon. I started sub and learned that while an excellent slave my intuition and creativity better served me as a Dom. While I am a Dom in most relationships I do feel a need to submit at times and with certian people. I do find that I can be a challenge as a sub so I tend to need someone who really knows what they are doing.
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It is complicated my state of mind, sometimes I will feel I want to dominate someone who I've just been chatting with for sometime. He shows up and then I feel I can't I totally fall into the submissive roll. Other times I want to turn a male out tie his cock and balls, train him to lick me the way I want, totally dominate his ass. I dont really know if I am naturally dominate, or submissive it is sooooo complicated! lol
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