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Just about every on premise club that we have attended over the years has at least one room dedicated to BDSM play. Many people seem curious and others will always have a strong bias against it. As long as that bias does not affect us we're fine with that.

The one thing that we've learned is that while most people in the vanilla world would say that swingers are open minded free spirits, they aren't. Swingers can be narrow minded and rigid in their thought process. We'll enjoy ourselves just the same.

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The club we went to just had the wall restraints and no door to the room. A row of comfortable seating - play area leather couch type stuff surrounding. We're hoping to see more people come play, but it seems like there exists some prejudice at the club.

We've seen exciting things in European erotic fillms, the hardcore movies tend to not be as exciting as they more "heady" european approach. Regardless, we're hoping the exhibitionist BDSM'ers will come out and play so we can see more of the interaction.

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My mate and I went to a club a couple of times, the first time none of the equipment was used. The next party, wow. This gentleman displayed and pleasured at least 5 women , and the sessions and suspensions were nothing short of breathtaking. The club has a Saint Andrews cross, a gyno chair, many tables with restraints and some "devices" I haven't learned how to use yet. I imagine each club is completely individual. Our little party spot indulges to my deviance's. heh heh

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GF&ME, that sounds like fun.

The club we go to has a room with wrist/ankle restraints hooked to the bed. I guess you need to bring your own other toys. Funny thing is that is the one room with an open window on the door.

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We went to a club in NYC that was all D/s, very interesting to watch, we wouldn't interrupt or make any noise but we were amazed at the amount of punishment some can take, the skill some have using rope and how much fun some of the ones being hit/beaten/tied/flogged were having. We have gone more than once actually. Its a fun night out. Not to mention all the fun contraptions they have there to put her in. :)

Summerville SC
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laughinglovers:

I won't pretend to speak for all BDSMers every time and everywhere, so this is just IMHO.

BDSMers who do exhibitions tend to be, not surprisingly, exhibitionists. They're genuinely proud of their skills, and enjoy being watched.

I'm think most assume that the swingers watching them won't be judgmental, at least not at the time, or they wouldn't be watching.

If I were doing an exhibition, I'd have two concerns:

1) The swingers wouldn't understand why D/s and BDSM works for those who practice it, and would just focus on the techniques they see -- how to use a flogger, or example.

2) The swingers wouldn't know the etiquette for watching and would spoil the exhibition by interrupting. I'd deal with that by explaining the rules in advance. To get an idea of what the rules would be, see my post in this section in a different topic.

Hope that helps.

-ST

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Every once in awhile we run across a swinger's club that has a room for BDSM. Each time we've seen this, the room promoted voyeurism, very open, with seating around the edges and plenty of space for those playing. We don't have any BDSM tendencies (tried and just wasn't real fun), but we both immensely enjoy watching the interaction and are pleased when there is activity in these rooms. We have found some swingers who will put it down, seems a little unfair given that we as swingers are 'fringe' ourselves. Anyhow, wondering if the BDSM groups feel comfortable and welcome at swinger's club that have these rooms, or is the bias just too much?

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