A misbehaving Sub: Swingers Discussion 1710641079

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TOPIC: A misbehaving Sub

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User Details are only visible to members.	Bucks ~ if she was more experienced, I'd agree w/ you. I think that she's trying to find what works for her. I'd thought of mentioning it, but there is so much bad associated with it (and rightly so, in my opinion) that I didn't want to bring it up. Figuring out how all this works can be tough for some people ~ and I would imagine that the internal dialogue as a potential switch can be pretty confusing w/o introducing things that are bratty when they are known about, but may very well be a normal part of her figuring out what she likes. JMHO. Tho, it may be that topping from the bottom is what she enjoys. She just needs to find someone else that enjoys that in a sub.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (497 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I believe the term for what NaughtyFilly is doing is "Topping from the bottom"
Southampton PA			Username hidden (30 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	OK ~ so you're figuring it out. That's good. Some people just know where their predilictions lie and some don't. If you don't, there's nothing healthy about trying to fit into a certain mold. It's not likely to work or be fun for anyone. From what you've posted, you sound like you're a switch that's trying to figure out how to make the desire to be dominated and dominate work. As Seduction said, you're trying to control the person that's supposed to be controlling you ~ which makes me think that you probably fall more into the Domme side than the sub, but are intrigued by the idea of finding someone that can really control you. Just a thought. As you figure out what you want and enjoy, you'll come across people that are like minded and will enjoy what you enjoy. There are so many different ways to engage in BDsM. All that's right is what works for you ~ from being a bratty sub to being 24/7. Explore and discover ~ and have fun!
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (497 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"Discovering who you really are is half the fun..." I think that is where I'm at. I'm having fun what I am doing, how I'm doing it. This is all still fairly new, and to the guys. Trial and error. I will work on discussing exactly what/how I want before hand and see if that makes a difference.
Pensacola FL			Username hidden (7 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	You sound like a SAM, a Smart Assed Masochist. SAMs are masochists who don't know how to simply ask for what they want. Instead, they make a game of making people genuinely upset so that they will get punished. Be careful you don't someday bite off more than you can chew, girly ;-)
Lineboro Cpo MD			Username hidden (291 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	M I know exactly what you're saying and I am the same way.
Windermere FL			Username hidden (2449 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I can imagine what you mean. WEG
Pittsburgh PA			Username hidden (14584 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I like a sub who's a little fiesty.
Pittsburgh PA			Username hidden (14584 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	If it works for you and who you're playing with, it's all good. If it's what you enjoy, it's all good. I very, very, very rarely brat. When I do, it makes me honest to God nervous and uncomfortable and anxious. But on the occassion that I do, it's a big ole red flag to me that something isn't right. That's ME, tho.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (497 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think it makes you intriguing and is probably some shit I would do.
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