Busy Swingers Forum - everything you always wanted to know about swingers.
SwingLifeStyle Swingers Personal Ads. | SwingLifeStyle Swingers Clubs

Busy Swingers Forum

Everything you always wanted to know about swingers.

Create A Free Account

HELP
FORUMS General Discussions B.B.W. You tell me
TOPIC: You tell me
GoTo Page: 1 2
Start   11 to 15 of 15 
User Details are only visible to members.
i agree with gina.

I wouldn't come to your party with that attitude in your profile. We don't get out enough as it is and we wouldn't want to risk drama that you seem to out.

Lake Worth FL
Username hidden
(7207 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
But wait, there's more. Why are you posting this in the BBW forum if you state several times that you want people who are HWP or close?

San Antonio TX
Username hidden
(5605 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
Just read through your profile (and yes, I always read them all the way through) and now I know why you're not getting the responses you'd like to get. You are way too negative in your profile, with bold red, "shouting" type and just a lot of negative statements and warnings. It isn't friendly or welcoming, and you may want to think of rewording some of it if you want people to respond to your invites.

Hope this is helpful.

San Antonio TX
Username hidden
(5605 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
How strange...we would never think that a house party would NOT be free...can't imagine charging people to come to our house and have a good time. We always provide all the food and drinks. We've been to quite a few house parties, and a lot of them just suggest byob and snacks, and we always take both.

Are you inviting people who don't know you yet? You need to socialize outside your home first and then invite people to a party. People have qualms about coming to someone's house if they don't know the hosts, or don't know a few of the other people.

Good luck with this...I'd certainly question an invite that had to state that it's Free.

Gina

San Antonio TX
Username hidden
(5605 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
We realize times are tough financially for many so we have FREE parties for those we feel some compatibility with. Many we have spoken to and some we have not. FREE BYOB parties but if they can't afford to bring anything to the party that is fine also. We understand. IT"S still FREE. You just have to find a way to it. In some cases we have even suggested other cpls to car pool wiith. We usually have enough food and drinks for everyone and YET we get NO responses from many. NOT ever a NO thank you. We have rules for our parties. No one is required to play with some one they aren't attracted to. I tell it in every invite. What is there to lose coming to a FREE party to see if there are people you MAY like. IF there are none you can leave. WTF? Are some people so into their selves they are to good for anyone? If so why are you on a swinger site? All it is a diversion from your every day problems. FREE

Puryear TN
Username hidden
(10 posts)
GoTo Page: 1 2
Start   11 to 15 of 15 
TOPIC: You tell me