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Agreed M...its very frustrating to boot. I talked recently with one husband who wanted me to "coax" his wife...and then of COURSE pulled up the old faithful of "well, if you give her alcohol she loosens up". I succinctly told him thanks but no thanks. We pretty much do not email those with 0 on their profile. We are happy to party with you but we will not set up a playdate because of prior issues regarding this.

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happy, like she said a 0 as the weight can show insecurity. And if someone is insecure about their weight before we meet, how much more would they be when we are all getting naked? I'm not saying this is how you are in particular but some people.

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To me personally it shows that the person is insecure. You are what you are. Weight is a part of it. Eventually people are going to meet you. That is why we are here on sls. You dont have to change it every time you go up or down 5 or 10 pounds but just put a ball park weight. Most everyone we know goes by the picts anyhow. We prefer to meet people at gatherings than go by profile pictures and such. We have had to many people " embellish on their profiles " Welcome to sls and have fun :) You will find people of all sexes , sizes and shapes and colors and ages at clubs. There is no need to worry .

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What kind of red flag does it put up??

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It is always best to add your weight no matter what it is rather than leaving it zero . Having a zero as a weight puts up a red flag in my book.

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Thank you for the welcome.

As for the comment about me only weighing 0, no I didn't put down my weight. Just didn't feel comfortable doing it when my husband set up the account and haven't taken the time to go in and add it. I've seen a lot of other profiles where people didn't have their weight listed.

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"I was feeling self conscious and thinking that I'd be the only one. "

But you only weigh 0 lbs.

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Hi everyone! My husband and I are new to all of this and still feeling our way around. LOL No pun intended.

Anyway, I was really surprised at how many BBW's there are on here. I was feeling self conscious and thinking that I'd be the only one.

I was wondering if anyone here is a member of The Farm? We're headed down there on August 14th for the Meet & Greet, even reserved a cabin so we don't have to drive home. Is anyone else going to be there that night? It would be nice to have a familiar face or two in the crowd when we get there to help us relax.

We don't have any pictures up yet (one of our goals for the weekend) and my husband needs to work on what he wrote for our profile. Hopefully before the weekend is over both of those will be done.

Anyway everyone seems so friendly here so I just wanted to say hi.

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