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User Details are only visible to members.	lost... honey... you don't need a spanx!! ...we'll just have to think of other tight feelings for ya! :) ...but ...if you want a little snug feelin around you, there are PLENTY of very sexy styled body shapers that would look and feel awesome on you!
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Why can't I just say I'm sexual and leave it at that?" Agree with you 100%. However...in this society, everyone has to have a box. And well in swinging, to some degree you have to "categorize" yourself I suppose...because if you are a lady who is only here for bi play and another lady is straight...well, there is no need for you to spend 2 hours trying to pick her up. So they are a necessary evil to a degree I suppose. However, in regard to BBW, HWP and the rest...I'm just me. And spanx. I am going to try them I think....I love a tight feeling haha.
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User Details are only visible to members.	oohh thank you jandscincy, ...I am fun! LOL and that was real sweet. much appreciated. :)
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User Details are only visible to members.	I'm another new person but I think kinddragon is going to be fun! She's kind and open. The pic I saw looks lovely and your profile is open, honest, clear and fresh.
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User Details are only visible to members.	oh!!! btw, i dont think anyone that replied to this thread was judgemental in any way! i appreciated all the replies very much. i just have seen it in my travels and would like to avoid that in my profile from the start... donna
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User Details are only visible to members.	Hey Gina, i saw this after i emailed you. thanx very much for your advice and opinions... very helpful. of course 'some' people judge others, i just want to make sure those who do ...pass us by from the get go! (i made a big mistake by going to the fitness forums when we first joined and it scarred me for life. LOL!!) ...and speaking of spanx, i have bought so many, this one in particular was the only one completely comfortable and worked. ALL the others, well... the sounds i made just trying to peel them up and down were horrific! LOL! and using the bathroom at a public place was not an option!! yea... i think i'm gonna have to get in touch with my jiggly side.... (side's) :) it's making me miss the whole point of the Lifestyle. ... i will work on it! :)
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User Details are only visible to members.	PS, my first "Girl/girl" experience was with a lovely, sexy overweight woman who had small tits. Also nothing to fret over. They come in all sizes and shapes too, isn't that fun?
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (6056 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think you have to take with a grain of salt the advice to be honest by someone who lists zero as her weight. I'm not slamming you, Ontario, but people do look and judge. Perhaps they shouldn't. I don't feel that you have to clarify your pics, dragon. You don't have label yourself anything at all. You are lovely and sexy and hot as you feel, and that's what matters, not what some standard measurement might tell you. There are women who are sexy and hot at 5'9 and 120 pounds, and women who are sexy and hot at 5'0 and 185. How YOU (and your partner) see yourself is what matters most. I hate labels. I am bi, but I don't even like that label. Why can't I just say I'm sexual and leave it at that? There are degrees, if you read some of the posts in orhter threads, of "bi-ness" that I don't follow, just as there are degrees of fitness, of BBW, etc etc etc. I don't really like the term BBW. But I follow this thread b/c I like it, am overweight, and find it encouraging and sometimes uplifting and helpful. You will see all sizes posting in this forum. And, I am still growling that SLS hasn't been able to fix the problem of my height. I am 5'2". Not 5'1", although now that I'm over 50, I probably am shrinking, but dammit, I could use that extra inch. Don't fret. Like yourself as you are. Fix what you can and what you want to, and enjoy life and your body. BTW, I tried on shapers and spanx recently b/c I have a lead role in a short play, and omg....SO UNCOMFORTABLE! I peeled myself out of them and hung them back neatly on the hangers and shook my head. So I jiggle. So what? hahaha. If you've ever seen Hot In Cleveland, there is a cute episode where Valerie Bertinelli's character is wearing one, can't get out of it to enjoy herself with a date, and it's chuckle worthy. Betty White keeps saying, "It's a GIRDLE." Whatever you want to call it, if you can wear them, like them, go for it, just like anything else. If you can't, or don't want to, no worries. It's women who judge other women the most. Guys are pretty okay with us if they're attracted to us with our clothes on, they'll be attracted with them off, imperfections and all. Gina
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User Details are only visible to members.	thanx girls! :) Ontario, i completely agree with being honest which is really why i made the post in the first place ...it's not like you can hide anything in the end around here! (for the lucky happy ending i mean!) lol but my perception of myself is so unclear, i guess because this body wieght is fairly new ...and of all times i have chosen to advertise myself! hot and sexy have not been in my vocabulary lately.... ...but did you say that cause you think i'm not being honest enough? or was it just a general statement? donna
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User Details are only visible to members.	Hello, This is just my opinion but, I think that you should be as honest as possible. It might be risky but the pay off will be worth it.
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