Is BBW different for everyone: Swingers Discussion 2047391041

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User Details are only visible to members.	Sexus and Lost, thank you ladies. We are planning a trip that way here very soon, should be before the summer is up. You two are going to make my heads swell, yep both of em....lol. I'm just a regular guy, plain ol me...well maybe more facetious than most......hehehehehehehehe
Burleson TX			Username hidden (1942 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Wolf you are an amazing guy.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23651 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think bbw's are so sexy, but I really luv you all, lets all have fun:)
Albion NY			Username hidden (150 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I have to say this about BBW.. I have always favored women that were what i consider sexy. From size 12, 14 to size 20. I just find them womanly and quite sexy. I love to caress a womans tummy and a nice round derrier just sends me Especially if she's wearing jeans or shorts that just hug her.. LORDY. What a wonderful sight. Thats just my opinon mind you.. But i do value it. lol
Georgetown TX			Username hidden (53 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Mr Sexy, er, Mr Wolf, I know you and from day one in these forums there was something about you that seduced me. Having met you in person, my first impressions were right on. You ARE sexy. There's that mischievous, devious part of you where you just have the right laugh, insinuating one at that. The relationship you have with Mrs. Lady just adds to that. I've always adored you (and more...get back to SA, ok?) and I wish you well on your journey to good health. And hey, motivate me too, will you? G
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User Details are only visible to members.	Such are hard subject. I know plenty that think of themselves as such. Hey, shave my head and I could have passed for Buddha, lol. I'm a big guy, some may call BHM, some may call me out and out fat. The medical world would label me morbidly obese. The thing is, I carry it well. Besides sexy is in attitude as well. The only opinions that truly matter are yours and the people you love. I have made changes in my life and on the road to "getting sexy back dammit" lol. The weight is dropping and I will be at my target weight by this time next year at the latest. The medical world and some others will still consider me over weight at that time, but I know what works for me in that aspect. Versus having a long distance runner physique. My doctor and I have already started that fight, lol. The army considered me over weight at 235 and 6'4...even though I had 10% body fat at the time...go figure. Ultimately, it is where you are comfortable and healthy....to hell with the labels.
Burleson TX			Username hidden (1942 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	G, yeah...I was a sick girl for sure. A 10 is a good size for me, but that is getting uncomfortably snug. I am just hoping that the infusions work.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23651 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	PS. When I met birth family several years ago, I described myself as "kind of fat." And when my half brother (not the asshole refered to b elow) described my half sister, he said she had the same body type. I said something about genetics. He said, "no, I think it's really more of a northern Ohio thing." Yes, that's where I am from, so all you beauitiful Ohio people please note, that I know what that area is like, and sometimes you just NEED to eat! It's cold and grey and dreary more often than not, and food can be a comfort and an entertainment. Please don't put yourselves down so much. Some of you break my heart when you think you're not as beautiful as someone else. KindDragon, I wish I could meet you. I have a feeling we'd talk for HOURS.
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (6048 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I still don't believe in all the labels. If people want to label you, okay, whatever, but thee's no need to label yourself on a profile if you don't want to. There's all SORTS of shapes and sizes and numbers. People tend to look at pics before they read profiles anyway, and if you list your height and weight, then that should be good enough. I've never read a profile that states: "I am a Barbie and he is a Ken." There are a lot of reasons why we keep our weight. I'm learning this. I thought I was just rebellious, which okay, sometimes I am. I also have Type II and it only scares me when I hear from a friend who HAS lost his feet and is on dialysis, etc. Sometimes I just want a freaking bag of M&Ms, not a huge pounder bag, but a "normal" size one, and if I don't eat that, then I'll eat my way all around it until I actually satisfy that craving. MUCH better to just buy a small bag of M&Ms in the first place than to spend days eating chips, or crackers or all the other things instead. Moderation. Yes. Sometimes just a jolly rancher candy will satisfy that craving. Anyway, back to why we are the way we are, besides rebellion. I put on weight when I was married to my ex. I've pretty much learned that weight is a "protection" layer of sorts. An insulation, or can be, against people getting too close, or someone hurting you through abuse or other awful things. For me, I was raped by a tall stranger when I was a virgin and age 17. He actually picked me up in the air and slammed me down on his cock. I was little then, probably about 125 pounds, and I'm 5'2". Okay, it's a bad thing that happened to me, BUT, it does NOT define me. It's just something that happened. THAT took a while to understand. The weight put on would assure me that no one else is ever going to be able to pick me up again. And then when I was married, I married a very jealous control freak who wanted me fat for the world (so no one would look at me) but thin for him. Um. I'm not that talented. and guess what? There were still people who were attracted to me even at 203 pounds and miserable. SO...whatever your reasons are for maintaining some extra weight, you do yourselves no favors by attaching some stupid label that other people have created. What's wrong with calling myself Gina? I might be considered fat (hahaha, more than "might"), fluffy, thick, curvy, obese, etc. Why should I feel compelled to label myself as BBW (I've never used the term to describe myself) just so someone can read it in a profile and shake their head and say, unh, unh, not for me." Shel, I worried about you BIG TIME when you were the incredible shrinking woman. I know your history with body image. You looked actually a bit ill at that size. Not saying you need to be a size 32, but probably a size 10 is just right? I wish we could just have sizes like the guys all do. A size 38 waist is a size 38 waist, whether it's jeans, shorts, dress pants, whatever. You ladies all know that we can wear any number of sizes depending on the make of the clothing. I wear a size 16P in jeans, and almost all jeans in that size fit me to some degree: some tighter, some looser, some cut too long in the rise, some too short, etc etc etc. Sometimes I can also wear a 14, sometimes I can wear a plus 14/16...you get the idea. Tops are even worse. So, ladies. BBW or not, don't let someone ELSE define you. Define yourself in the way that you want, in the way that makes you feel good about YOU. And lets you shine, no matter what size you are. "And we all shine on." There is beauty all around, and in most everyone (except maybe my asshole brother). Let that beauty out. And, in the meantime, there are just times I eat. I understand it a bit. I also know it's my choice to stop it or not. And sometimes, depending on my emotions, I choose the "not." So this is me and how I look. And feel. Gina
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (6048 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	ok.. i hear what you are all saying but i was curious on your views ... we dont feel we are BBW but we have been called that... so i was wondering some answers from you all to see.. it wont hurt our feelings one way or another...lol We do like how we are (althought we are fluffy...) :) we are confident and have had ALOT of goof fun with great couples of ALL sizes...
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