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Wellllll, waaay back to the original question posted... I believe if you search through the profiles you will find disciminators ( not discrimination...rather preferences, let's not forget the true definition of the word) from folks about all kinds of things. I have found profiles that state "within our race", "hwp", "not looking for Ken and Barbie", "seeking professional couples", "non-smokers", "420 friendly", "bi women only", "bi men only", "must be hung", ect...

I think a lot of folks have forgotten that SLS is not about fair, SLS is not about equality, SLS is about putting people together who want to be together. If someone does not want to be in a sexual situation with you REGARDLESS off the reason, then do not waste your time, do not waste thier time, move along, find another person or couple and enjoy yourself.

I am not about to pretend to like someone or force my wife into pretending to like someone just to keep from hurting someone else's fragile ego. If you are not happy with yourself ( body image, poor descisions, shoddy finances, bad parenting, whatever...) THEN CHANGE it and do not expect others to change to suit you.

ALL of that being said, I prefers my womens with some meats on the bones, I slow down to enjoy ALL of the curves!

BTW this is the Mr...

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That should have read "no pun intended." My phone's auto correction should be shot.

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Favorable environment, genetics or not, you could still make a difference if you should choose to do so. Nothing beats hard work and a positive attitude. Your environment is merely another variable that will either motivate you or bring you down. I will say that is a very meaty (no out intended) paragraph about science and its findings. Interesting.

KindDragon, what motivated me was the fact that I always admired a chiseled physique and I always had a genuine love for exercise. Being the fat kid who idolized Schwarzenegger and Stallone, I always aspired to emulate them. After finding what worked for me (I merely brush up and slightly read into stuff) I simply ran with it and success hit harder than a sack of hammers.

To add to the entire "science" part of this discussion, 85% of my family is overweight to an either slight or crazy degree considering how I'm from German and Italian heritage. Exception to the scientific rule?? Nope... I just chose to bust my ass and make great choices. :-)

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Not this thread mind you but the other two active threads about the subject in the other forums.

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thanks for the pertinent info folks. there was a study about twins that were separated at birth which also pointed to genetics but my brief search didn't turn it up. Truth be told( again )these anti fat threads are born out maliciousness from the op to another member.

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I don't know what constitutes a "valid" study.....but, wiki says:

Like many other medical conditions, obesity is the result of an interplay between genetic and environmental factors. Polymorphisms in various genes controlling appetite and metabolism predispose to obesity under certain dietary conditions. The percentage of obesity that can be attributed to genetics varies widely, depending on the population examined, from 6% to 85%.[2] As of 2006, more than 41 sites on the human genome have been linked to the development of obesity when a favorable environment is present.[3]

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I stand corrected Leeza. What I read there, as I sometimes read too quickly, was "Overweight people are MORE PRONE to being obese." I completely overlooked genetically. Silly me.

The assertive and arrogant trainer within (I used to be one) is gonna come out and say: Anything is possible if you apply yourself. It's much easier to be lazy and throw dietary caution to the wind. I was 240 when I was 13, as I posted below. Back in July of last year, July of 2012, I was 240. I am now a lean and physically capable powerhouse (not boasting, seriously) weighing in at 187.

Point?? If I can do it, so can anyone else. All it takes is effort that keeps on one-upping itself. You'd be surprised to see what happens when you take an ideal and run with it; you'll be surprised to see what you can do!!

If you choose to be big, don't be all sensitive to comments. After all, this is your choice, right??

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"No Fattys" (sp?) is pretty rude, but there are a lot of folks who just aren't attracted to obese people. There are others who have a problem with different races, simply out of a sexual preference, not in a racist sense. For example, I (male half) am not physically attracted to Asian women. Nothing about their ethnicity, I'm simply not turned on by them. Vive la difference. I do know men who love BBWs, and more power to them. We have to remember that this is a swinger's site, not a diversity conference. We all have our particular tastes, and can and should express them without being rude or demeaning.

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Paragon - is it a valid point? I've never heard of a study that indicates that most overweight people are genetically prone to obesity. If anyone has a link to a valid basis for that statement, it would be very interesting.

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Valid point. Touche!!

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