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Ok…so, here I go again with the unpopular point of view, but, oh well. Irish….I read BiHiPoint’s profile, too, and I don’t see anywhere in there where they talk about having health issues. Unless you have some kind of psychic abilities that you haven’t spoken about, I doubt very seriously that you can tell just by looking at their pictures that they have health issues. Not all obese people have health issues. My man has had a heart attack and every doctor he’s seen assumes that he has high cholesterol. He doesn’t. His heart issues are genetic. Even a doctor cannot tell by looking at him that he has a particular ailment. As for your suggestion that BiHiPoint save up and get gastric bypass…I find it offensive for anyone to suggest an invasive surgery for someone that they don’t know. Gastric bypass is not a procedure that one should consider as a quick weight loss solution. For one thing, unless you treat the reason the person is overweight (i.e. via counseling for addiction issues, or medical treatment for medical issues) studies show that people will put the weight right back on. Surgically shrinking a person’s stomach does not guarantee that they will not be able to stretch it out again over time. Because of its invasive nature, once a person has a gastric bypass procedure, any future surgery involving the stomach area becomes a major operation with increased chances of death. And speaking of death…..gastric bypass can result in death. My friend’s husband went in for a simple gastric bypass procedure and the surgeon knicked his colon (which happens more often then people realize). He crashed and almost died 3 times over a 6 month hospital stay. He will never be the same. His entire body was traumatized by the process. So, please take into consideration that suggesting something so invasive to someone you don’t even know is a little irresponsible….if not rude and offensive.

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BiHiPoint: Female half here. Just looked at your profile, the female half is not fat; she are morbidly obese! Please think about your health. My obese sister-in-law at 45 yrs. old just had a major stroke. She has diabetes, high blood pressure and the list goes on. Don't loose weight because you swing, loose it for your life!! Sorry if this offends you, but I feel concern for your health/longevity. Save up and have the gastric bipass surgery.

"Obesity increases the likelihood of various diseases, particularly heart disease, type 2 diabetes, obstructive sleep apnea, certain types of cancer, and osteoarthritis. Obesity is most commonly caused by a combination of excessive food energy intake, lack of physical activity, and genetic susceptibility, although a few cases are caused primarily by genes, endocrine disorders, medications or psychiatric illness."


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2tryinfor4 has it right....

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ah, you took that figuratively, Sed, and I took it literally, as in ass=the donkey/zebra pic below the post. Maybe he'll elaborate.

I really liked what 2tryinfor4 posted. Logic and reason. And honest.

And appreciated. G.

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An ass because they have preferences?

People who have no preferences are not people that we'd be interested in meeting on any level.


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good points thats why we are adding more pics this weekend and yes a zeedonk!

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Well, you have weights listed, so it's not like you're lying, but I see a pic of lips, a forehead, cleavage, and both of you behind a blanketed equine. That doesn't tell very much.

Is that a zedonk?

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Good point. We are both not HWP but since we are new maybe our pics do not reflect our whole bodies yet. Would appreciate feedback to see if we are misrepresenting ourselves. This weekend we plan on meeting another couple who has agreed to take lots of pics for the site.

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Hello, This is Ann here. I have ran across some fat discrimination at the parties however when I am fortunate to find a playmate with "padding" I prefer it. I find BBWs to be so passionate and energetic its amazing! Everyone has their general preferences when it comes to what they are attracted to (mine are men with a belly or BBWs), however we base our play choices on chemistry and personality rather than looks. We recently had a couple contact us that had they prefer HWP on their profile - we are larger than that. We would have never contacted them directly because of that but were sure glad they contacted us! Passion comes in all shapes and sizes and I am certainly looking forward to the exploration!

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Wellllll, waaay back to the original question posted... I believe if you search through the profiles you will find disciminators ( not discrimination...rather preferences, let's not forget the true definition of the word) from folks about all kinds of things. I have found profiles that state "within our race", "hwp", "not looking for Ken and Barbie", "seeking professional couples", "non-smokers", "420 friendly", "bi women only", "bi men only", "must be hung", ect...

I think a lot of folks have forgotten that SLS is not about fair, SLS is not about equality, SLS is about putting people together who want to be together. If someone does not want to be in a sexual situation with you REGARDLESS off the reason, then do not waste your time, do not waste thier time, move along, find another person or couple and enjoy yourself.

I am not about to pretend to like someone or force my wife into pretending to like someone just to keep from hurting someone else's fragile ego. If you are not happy with yourself ( body image, poor descisions, shoddy finances, bad parenting, whatever...) THEN CHANGE it and do not expect others to change to suit you.

ALL of that being said, I prefers my womens with some meats on the bones, I slow down to enjoy ALL of the curves!

BTW this is the Mr...

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