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i have to agree with @someday. someone who is skinny isn't going to get the same hurtful assumptions and at the frequency larger people get. i don't look at skinny people and say, oh they must be anorexic, however everyone automatically assumes i'm lazy or have health problems because of my size. i work out everyday, am as strong as an ox, and probably healthier than a lot of skinny people. i can't help my size and frame, i'm just a big guy. hell i was 13lbs 11oz when i was born.

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@Fleurtygirl, I think maybe we more fleshy folk are defensive in that way -- "if you don't like it, move along" -- because we have so often encountered outright loathing, personally, and more influentially, culturally.

Just think, we have our own genre of comedy: the time-honored fat joke. And how many times have we seen a movie character in a scene like the blind date turns out to be, HORRORS!, fat!?

***We are very often portrayed as not just non-sexual, but anti-sexual.***

The presumption is that audiences can't even comprehend wanting to fuck a fat chick. They are practically nauseated by the very concept. (This doesn't seem as common with fat men but I won't go down that road). For fat women who like sex, as you might imagine, this news doesn't go down well. Who wants to be thought of as repulsive? We can learn to let a lot roll off our backs, but perhaps some defensiveness can be forgiven?

I think probably for every "skinny bitch" or "she needs some meat on her ribs" comment you hear, there are 100 much more hurtful comments directed towards the hefty. And I don't think even the most anti-thin person would be utterly revolted by the idea of having sex with the petite.

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Matt, you were in charge of rounding up the under-30 hotties. :)

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I know, fun.

Where was she at for the NOLA meetup?

-M

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Fleurty, welcome to the forums neighbor. Who dat!

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I am a BBW and i love all of me...It doesn't bother me what others think..Everyone has their own opinion..But to start posting..There bare alot of bi males and females.How would you like it if people put NO FAGS OR LESBIANS ALLOWED?..have to put the shoe on the other foot..If you don't like someone cuz they are different..that just means you have low self esteem about yourself...I have it worst cuz i am a BBW and a Black female..But one thing baout me..i am gourgeous!!!!!!..unlike some skinny women!!!!!!..thiunk about that

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I would never go as far as to say I felt like I was going to break someone, however their hip bones digging in to me is not comfortable....just sayin ;)

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Thanks for the welcome Bdh00037!! Hooray for America and freedom of speech...

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How dare you. You do not know me to make such a determination of my character, who the fuck do you think you are? For you to say "I'll break a rib" implies that because I do not weigh 300 pounds I am fragile and breakable...and weak. And let me tell you something. I have carried a 50 pound ruck sack on my back, marched 10 miles while carrying a M16 rifle. For you to make the implication that my body is weaker or more fragile than that of a BBW pisses me off. No, I will not break. Never fear, you will not break my rib. I have given birth to a 9lb 11oz human...you, my dear, will not break me in half. So never fear.


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I think the person who said that everyone has a preference, hit it right on the head.

*I* am attracted to women who's ribs do not show through their skin. Which is not any different than those people expressing their desire for a HWP woman only, which was the point of this whole thread was it not?

And to those who are slim that took offense to my saying "I don't want to feel like I'll break you.", perhaps there is an underlying sensitivity where my courtesy came across as a challenge, which is not the case. I never insinuated slim women were frail. I said *I* was worried *I* would hurt you in some way. Your ablitiy to take it or not take it was never questioned.

I did not "break down" one size to promote another. I only gave *my* point of view.

Everyone is entitled to express their opinion, even if it means excluding some people, regardless of criteria, from optional activities. Not everyone gets a trophy in life.

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