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bdh said: I enjoy the thin women as it increases the number of unique positions I can try and they are less likely to be paranoid about riding.

I don't think I've ever been "paranoid" about riding...I just have short chubby legs and of course, bad knees...and that's the riding arrangement. But I can reverse cowgirl with the best of them. And if you're sitting on a chair or couch, my thighs can last for a nice long time bouncing up and down on you, preferably facing the same way (so I can see the Rangers game too...).

We have had sex with skinnies, chubbies, oldies, youngies, blackies, whities (oh shut up, I know this isn't PC), and a lot of people in between the contrasts. We are delightfully surprised at times, but then, we leave ourselves open to be surprised. And we have also been the surprise, esp me. It's fun.

People are attracted to whom they are attracted. So what? It's like a menu...you pick what you think you'll like, or what looks or sounds good to you. Do some people "miss out" b/c they pick the same thing every single time they visit the restaurant? We might think so, but they don't think that way. They know what they like, disdain what they think they might not like, and are fine with it. Me, I like to try a variety. Sometimes I like it, sometimes I don't...but I know I will NOT try anything that doesn't look good to me. The thing is, along the lines of what bdh said, sometimes I'm attracted to tall, slim, sometimes short, round, and a lot of times somewhere in between.

The "beautiful people," self-described, or societally described, come on to us, we flirt with them, we've been attracted to them, they've been attracted to us...we try not to put limits on people. I'm 51 and overweight. I don't just want to play with other 51 year old overweight people...what the great fun in that? If I wanted that, I'd just play with myself in front of a mirror. HAHAHAHA. Okay...whew.

Dan will say he's not necessarily attracted to "skinny" women. But that doesn't mean he also hasn't been attracted to a few too. He's of the mindset that every woman has beauty. He's not particularly fond of true redheads either. But he sure has enjoyed at least one that I could name, as she took his hand, pulled him behind the wall of the hotel room we were all in, and led him to the bed. He likes confidence. He likes an assertive secure woman.

I am attracted to intelligence and sarcasm and a bit of ruggedness. Not to say I haven't had my share of young dumb studs too...there's a place and time for everyone/anyone, it all depends on what you're hungry for at a given moment.

And yeah, the irony of using food analogies in a BBW thread isn't lost on me.

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I posted before, and I'll say it again. I'm heavy, but guess what, people like me anyway. It's all about how you portray yourself. Truly. If you walk into a room weighing 200 pounds at 5'1, but display the confidence of knowing you look good, then that is exactly how people will see you. I haven't always been heavy, and granted, I'm not obese, but things like illness, age, and living in Alaska for 3 years...well they change your body. Accept the changes and love yourself, forget about those who don't like you for who you are.

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I like Mr. Bigstorm's post. Brutal honesty is a trait I like in a person.

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I like everybody and nobody,I like some of my friends and they could care less ,most of them think I'am kinda bent any way.poeple who don;t know me, I could care less what they think.poeple who know me don't think about it. I'am me like or not is your problem. I will not change for you or sume dipshit who is worried about what other poeple think if they sure be my friend or not.if you want to be my friend, than be my friend.if not then who cares,just don;t desrescpt me. I wont put up with it.so to my friends have a good day, to everybody else do wahtever floats your boat.I can be your best friend or your wost emeny,which do you want.......BS

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we get it all the time, if we go to a M&G or party and people ask our screen name, after we tell them they will look it up on sls on their phone, after they do they run like crazy. why because i'm listed as bi, we go their to party and have fun, but a lot of people are so paranoid that they don't even want to be seen talking to us, nor do they want us to certify them from just talking to them to show they are real because other people might think they are bi also because we certified them, and they don't want that label. we have many friends who are not bi and play with them with no male to male contact. if does frustrate us at parties because we do want to have a good time and just meet people in the lifestyle, but sometimes we feel like outcast when people run from us like we have the plague. It does bother Mrs John more than it does me, and always tell her not to worry about it, but it bothers her anyway, and i can understand her point because i would be upset if someone did the same to her.

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I was a 26W until ten years ago,......

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"With females, it never stops. We have to be the best mom, the best fuck, the thinnest, richest, best cock sucker, its ridiculous."

Men get it too. Where do you work? What do you drive? Or... only want to play with athletic ppl.... "Tall dark and handsome", or only military, cops, fire, etc.

Guys have to be good providers/dads, not only a good fuck. And then's there's his member. Women don't tend to stay with guys with small peckers. Women can get all kinds of body surgeries, but guys can't pick their Johnson size unless they have risky surgery. He's gotta have money for nice dates and later trips. The guy's gotta have oral skills and stamina..... so, it goes on for both sides of the fence.

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the sad thing is, people want to feel good. It is how we feel good that is important I think. Especially women, our society "teaches" us in a way to be competitive with each other. With females, it never stops. We have to be the best mom, the best fuck, the thinnest, richest, best cock sucker, its ridiculous. And for some...and I'm talking women in general both BBW and HWP...it makes them feel better about themselves to tear someone down. It basically is the bully on the playground, usually they are miserable on the inside. For me, I have enough issues with being comfie in MY skin, I can't worry about your skin haha. Society wise though, it is true...society is cruel to the overweight woman. I was 24W until 2006...trust me, I know it first hand.


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@lost_jl: I agree completely, and I bet we all do: mean people suck! To change the subject only slightly, I think civility is a darn good thing, and anyone who purposely speaks or writes in such a way to hurt another's feelings is only making any tension that exists worse. I know, it's not a particularly bold stance to take, but if it's so universally agreed upon, you have to wonder why it's not also universally acted upon?

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but perhaps some defensiveness can be forgiven? I think probably for every "skinny bitch" or "she needs some meat on her ribs" comment you hear, there are 100 much more hurtful comments directed towards the hefty. And I don't think even the most anti-thin person would be utterly revolted by the idea of having sex with the petite."

I do agree, our society can be absolutely cruel against the overweight. I have been overweight and I know all about it first hand. However...heavy people...well, SOME heavy people is more accurate to say of course...in my experience...almost delight in being mean just as much as some thin people do. I have had women say some cruel ass shit in front of me because of their own issues with themself...and the fact that it hurt my feelings seemed to almost make them feel better. Thin people do have feelings, that needs to be remembered. And because our jeans have a lower number...it does not mean our lives are full of roses. I do not, however, feel that because heavy people can be treated bad that their misbehavior should be forgiven...because they are treated "more" badly. Nothing EVER, in my opinion, justifies being a mean and malicious person.


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