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User Details are only visible to members.	Sweet, we are just trying to meet normal, average people. We tend to read through profiles to see if we have similar likes/dislikes/interests and if we do, we will say hello. As for the people who contact us, we tend to give most everyone a chance…even if they may not be physically what appeals to us most. We try to treat people how we want to be treated. I think everyone deserves respect. Are we always nice? Heck no!! I’m sure we’re not. We’re human…but, we do try. As for overweight men, I have played with men that have been very small and thin and have played with those that have more weight to them. For me, it’s more about personality than looks. But, that’s just me. To me, the term “overweight” is subjective anyway. What you may consider “overweight” may be completely different than what I consider “overweight” and both may be different from what an MD would consider “overweight”. I feel the same about dick size. I don’t care how big it is. If you know how to use it, you know how to use it! I know that there are different strokes for different folks. I would just hope that people would look a little further than skin-deep. The next person to rock your world may look a lot different than you expect.
Sacramento CA			Username hidden (71 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Such a large spectrum of responses on this. Preference is preference, not necessarily discrimination. There are those that are just down right ugly about indicating their preferences, be it size, race, status, et al. IMO, I concur about that us "Big 'ol Boys" have it a little more rough in the LS. Yes, I still consider myself a "Big 'ol Boy". There are those that remember me whenm I wasn't half the man I used to be, lol. It is about attitude and how you present yourself. Been there, done that, have the friends to prove it. Just put your best foot forward. Wolfie
Burleson TX			Username hidden (2030 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Maybe I should start subtracting 10lbs for my balls , the suckers are huge weigh about that much,;) I get what you are saying, it use to really bother me when we would get turned down by couples where the male was a big guy ( the type of guy my wife likes ) and the female was closser to my wife's size(the type of women we both like) But you know what "it is what it is"
Dallas TX			Username hidden (2225 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Damn Roc-em I wouldn't consider you overweight at 5'7 150. Hell my wife is 3 inches shorter than you are and is 145lbs and you can tell from her pics, she is far from over weight.
Dallas TX			Username hidden (2225 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I have to ask. Who are you trying to meet? Most of the clubs we have gone to have no shortage of BBWS who are playing with someone. Be it other BBW's or HWP fit young guys. I will say this, Try being a Fat guy in the lifestyle, While a lot of so called fit men and women will play with a BBW very few HWP women or BBWs what to have anything to do with an overweight male. Also We have seen many profiles where the female list herself as 5'0 170 and call herself HWP. We tend to pass over those with an over inflated self image.
Dallas TX			Username hidden (2225 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Livewire, I love your profile and your advice. I’m going to rethink our profile and try to make it more specific and positive. VA, it was not my original intention to come across as bitter or hostile, though, to some extent I AM bitter and hostile!! So, I will take your advice and try to temper my posts so that I am more neutral. Contrary to how it may appear, I do appreciate feedback. We want to have fun…just like everyone else here. Any tips that we can get that will help us to achieve that goal, will be appreciated.
Sacramento CA			Username hidden (71 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	If being bitter and angry is not the impression you wish to make, you need to check your writing style. You come across as hostile. I'm certain that I'm not the only one who would read it that way. As for people who write back "You're too fat" - why are you letting jerks upset you? We've received nasty and downright vicious replies too. One said "If I wanted to meet a heifer I'd go to a farm." You think you're the only one who gets nastygrams? You take the good with the bad. If you think being thin gets you a 95% hit rate on emails, you are sorely mistaken. As for the mistaken ID of the author of the email - sorry dudette.
Chesapeake VA			Username hidden (12136 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	VA, really?? Well, if having a chip on my shoulder means that I have a different opinion on fat discrimination than you do, then I accept that. But, frankly, I don’t know how you would know what my attitude on life is like or whether I have a chip on my shoulder from two posts on a website! That’s kind of a quick snap judgement, but that’s what this lifestyle is about….according to you…..right? And, by the way……I’m a dudette not a dude. And, no….I don’t send emails asking “why don’t you like me??” I may be fat sensitive and have a chip on my shoulder, but, I’m not totally ignorant or in high school. People have actually answered emails or messages with a “you’re too fat”. Sweet….good for you for having a love handle…or two…or three…..depending on what and where you’re grabbing <wink>! I guess I’m a chubby chaser, too! And, I love a good redneck….but, we’re not into the bar scene. We, too, have plenty of friends and family outside the lifestyle. We know what’s important in life and that this site is not the be-all and end-all of life. I guess it’s just disappointing to find out we are not “fuck-worthy” or “friend-worthy” based on our looks.
Sacramento CA			Username hidden (71 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	LnTaSacCa- I agree with you that people should be honest about what they are looking for in potentialplay partners from the get go. It is completely understandable why you would be upset if you emailed couples that stated that weight was irrelevant but get replies stating that you are too overweight. But you have to realize that this, swinging, fantasy fulfilment, whatever you want to call it, for the most part is a very selfish activity. People don't get into this as a charitable endeavour. They do it to have fun and get their jollies off. Take it from a couple who has experienced a lot of rejection...if you don't get the response you were hoping for or no response at all, let it go. Don't email to follow up to an unresponded email or to find out why someone replied with no interest. The best advice we received recently from a friend who realized how frustrated we sounded on our profile ( yes, the bitter feelings were evident on our profile wording) was to not dwell on the negatives (rejection) and to concentrate on the positives (our fantastic marriage and sex life). I encourage you to do the same :-)
Alpharetta GA			Username hidden (1023 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	oh and by the way, It takes more to get us to call someone "freind" than it does to get us in bed.
Dallas TX			Username hidden (2225 post)

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