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User Details are only visible to members.	Mrs. LWC, are you asking a general question or for yourself? Because I think you look great already.
Hunt Valley MD			Username hidden (3552 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Va you've mentioned on the forums that mrs. Va was heavier at one point. Would you share how she lost the weight and approximately how long out took her?
Alpharetta GA			Username hidden (919 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	VA, I can tell you that as an overweight male, how I carry my self and the confidence level i desplay has little to do with it. I can dress to the nines, stand tall and speak with confidence, It does not change the fact that I am fat and fat just aint sexy. I could lie to myself just like many of the women do here. but it still doesn't change the fact that "fat aint sexy"
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2192 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We can throw this around all day long, but the facts or the facts, And this fat boys knows and understands that Fat just aint sexy. How do i know this, well we have been doing this for over 26yrs, and in that time I have weigh as little as 190lbs and as much as 280lbs and this hads change at least 5 times. Now when I was at the low side of my weigh we where playing as much as 3 or 4 times a week. when I am at the high end 250 to 280 we played maybe 1 or 2 times a year.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2192 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"If you feel that people who have a differing opinion from yours have a bad attitude and are being defensive, then so be it." I don't think "people" do. I think you do. "VA, I applaud you for being so nice to those hefty older women! I'm sure they've appreciated it!" You sure like implying things I'm not saying. I said that to debunk the notion I believe you were purporting that I was only interested in collecting young Brazilian hotties with perfect round asses. I'm saying I'm not nearly as shallow as you seem to think I am. I've been honest with you. And I honestly say I wish you well and hope you find fun and happiness with this, and learn to simply see past those who are insulting and rude.
Chesapeake VA			Username hidden (11780 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	VA - I think I can predict that you and I could go for days on this topic and probably many others and still not see eye to eye. If you feel that people who have a differing opinion from yours have a bad attitude and are being defensive, then so be it. I expressed my opinion just as you expressed yours. Roc - Really? I never said that VA was rude, though he has said that he thought I would think that he was rude. He has a lot of opinions on who I am and what I'm thinking. He thought I was writing to people asking them why they didn't like me....he's told me I'm rude...angry....bitter....defensive....have a chip on my shoulder. But, I never once told him that he was defensive....angry....bitter....and had a chip on his shoulder! What I said was that my man and I have been treated rudely by people because of our weight/size/looks. I didn't name names. I made a general statement about how I HAVE been treated and how I WANT to be treated. Clearly....again....as I've stated before.....my thought process on the difference between preference and prejudice is different from the majority of people who have posted on this board. I think that if you read back, you will see that in my first post, I said that for every post from a person saying that they are being treated rudely because of their weight/size/looks, there are approx. 5 posts saying that they're wrong. And if you look at the responses since that first post, you will see that I was pretty spot on. VA, I applaud you for being so nice to those hefty older women! I'm sure they've appreciated it!
Sacramento CA			Username hidden (70 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	a bit more: "If you prefer to collect trophy stories or notches for your bedpost, by all means, go ahead and do that." We prefer to have fun. That can be fun with an old friend who we have known for years, or someone we just met. It's not about numbers or trophies. Just fun. You'd likely be amazed by the, lets say "heftiness" of some women I've been with.
Chesapeake VA			Username hidden (11780 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	You might consider this "rude", but I don't think you read what I wrote very carefully. I am most certainly not OK with rude behavior, but we are limited in our power of what we can do about it. When people are rude, I ignore them. Rude people aren't interested in hearing the opinions of people who find them rude. There is nothing to be gained by taking rude people to task. I do not reward their rudeness with attention. Our age different is not tremendous, and I have had plenty of women in their early 50s. Women I know very well, and others I don't know at all. I can enjoy either/or. There is much more to being attractive then simply being hot. I have at the current moment at least 2 women who are quite hot who are actively pursuing me and I want nothing to do with either of them, because I think they are lousy people. I'm being honest with you when I say this: if you present any of this kind of attitude, insecurity and defensiveness when meeting people, this is considerably less attractive than any amount of weight you carry. Mrs. VA used to be quite heavy herself, and thought much the way you do. Once she got around that, she was suddenly very happy in the lifestyle. p.s your account says it was created in 2004, not one year ago.
Chesapeake VA			Username hidden (11780 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	VA - We've only been members of the site for a little over a year.....but, you are right in that I have been around this planet almost 20 years longer than you have, which may account, to some degree, for the differences in our viewpoint. What I've learned in my lifetime is that there is truth to the old saying that beauty may be just skin deep. I don't care if you choose to pick some Brazilian babe up and fuck the daylights out of her within the first 5 minutes of meeting her. That's just not how I choose to do things. I chose to get to know someone, or at least share a conversation or two, before I invite them into my private space. I find that I feel safer and more comfortable operating that way. You have the "right" to live your life the way you want. If you prefer to collect trophy stories or notches for your bedpost, by all means, go ahead and do that. All I ask is that, if you're dealing with me, show some respect. Have the common courtesy to treat me the way you would want to be treated. I'm not just a screenname on a website. There is a person or persons behind that screenname. If you're the type of person who would expect people to and appreciate people who treat you rudely, then I'm probably better off not getting to know you. But, that's just me. Obviously, Ms. Brazil enjoyed your company and, it appears that you enjoyed her's.....so, carry on my wayward son! Do what you gotta do. But, don't expect me to agree with you that rude behavior, just because you don't like the way a person looks, is ok. It's not. And I truly feel that you are cheating yourself out of some potentially wonderful experiences because you prefer to judge people that way. But, that's just my opinion.....and we all have a "right" to our opinion.....right?
Sacramento CA			Username hidden (70 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I certainly wouldn't be rude to anyone who we weren't interested in, and I think people who are are jerks, but so be it. Some people are jerks. It's just the way it is. Here's my question for you - why do you think "Your Way" is the only way? I have no problem with your manner of seeking playmates - why do you have a problem with how other people choose to? Some of our greatest times have been with very much less-than-perfect people, but at the same time - it's been a week and I am still glowing from some young Brazilian babe I met in New Jersey (and at this point it probably counts as bragging). I had her in a room less than 5 minutes after meeting her. I have no idea what kind of person she is, but what happened certainly wouldn't have happened had I not found her incredibly attractive (and she presumably me) before a word ever came out either of our mouths. It may not be how you would do things, but why is "My Way" inferior to yours? My best advice to you (although you've been around here for some time - I know you're not new to this) is to ignore the jerks and be a good person yourself. Don't let the bozos get you down. Be friendly, social and confident and you'll be fine.
Chesapeake VA			Username hidden (11780 post)

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