Fat discrimination: Swingers Discussion 17431610171

155
Fat discrimination: Swingers Discussion 17431610171

Busy Swingers Forum - everything you always wanted to know about swingers.

SwingLifeStyle Swingers Personal Ads. | SwingLifeStyle Swingers Clubs

Busy Swingers Forum

Everything you always wanted to know about swingers.

Create A Free Account

TOPIC: Fat discrimination

GoTo Page: Less ... 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 ... More

Start

171 to 180 of 418

End

User Details are only visible to members.	Lady & Wolf, you're a very nice looking couple.
Sacramento CA			Username hidden (70 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thank you very much, ma'am. And you even still liked me after meeting me in person...in both forms. I've lost 150lbs this year and at my target range now. Other than my square footage, the only change has been my self-confidence. The flirting and mind are stil the same darlin (wink). Can't wait for the next run....
Burleson TX			Username hidden (1947 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	As far as the overweight male goes, there is a guy on here that I've flirted with for years now. He was large. He is now not large. I thought he was sexy at the heavier weight, and I think he's still sexy at his fit weight. He's prob lost over 100 pounds this past year. So not everyone has that mentality that fat just ain't sexy. It wasn't/isn't about the "fat" for my attraction to him. It's about the man behind the smile, the intelligence and the flirtatious wit. Wolf, you know who you are. ;) Gina
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (6064 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I haven't been on here in a while, so I didn't read all the replies below, but one stuck out: when the new couple in here posted about "chip on her shoulder" and yes, she was a bit hostile and bitter...well isn't THAT your answer as to why you are getting no response on a swing site? That is WAY more a turn off to anyone seeking sex than what you weigh. It's time to turn it around, if you want to have fun in swinging. You can either have that chip on your shoulder b/c you perceive that people are rejecting you because of your weight, or you can realize that it's the chip there that is unattractive. People prefer all kinds of sizes and shapes and colors and heights and preferences. Here, I'll use this example yet again, since you are newer: My husband does not "prefer" redheads. Doesn't seek them out, just isn't his think to be attracted INITIALLY to a freckled redhead. He doesn't know why. No one in his past was redheaded and bitchy to him, etc. BUT Has he been attracted to freckled redheads and has he had sex with them and has he gone on to become great friends with them? YES! The sex appeal goes beyond weight, or hair color, or freckles. It's attitude, it's a genuine smile, it's flirting, being confident, wearing what you know fits and looks good on you no matter what size it is, holding your body w/ confidence and assurance. It's also grabbing him by the hand after she knows he's interested and leading him into the bedroom and saying, "I want you to fuck me." That worked for him with a couple of fun REDHEADED FRECKLED friends, attractive, not perfect women. Now, if he was looking at profile pics, he might have scrolled right past them. Yes. Maybe that's too bad. And if the chip on your shoulder is regarding that, then I'd say it's a waste of a good chip. Because there is nothing that whining, complaining, griping, bitching, and posting can do to change that dynamic. Go boldly on and have a good time! Gina
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (6064 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thank you. A lot of people didn't realize how heavy she was because she carried it so nicely. But she finally put her nose to the grindstone and decided that she was done being overweight, and made it so. She made her first 40 mile bike ride only 3 months in and still about 230, and her first 60 mile bike ride while still about 210 pounds. That said - neither of us ever tells anyone what they should or should not do. While some people are obviously dangerously overweight (or rather, maybe not dangerous for 35 years old, but definitely for 60), we think that's none of our business, unless someone flat-out asks us what we think (which is usually not the case).
Chesapeake VA			Username hidden (11823 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thanks for sharing Va. That is an amazing transformation which I'm sure was not easy but she did it. Kudos to Mrs. Va.
Alpharetta GA			Username hidden (927 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Perhaps some of that came from my own improved confidence, though. Your right, weight does have a lot to do with confidence, and confidence isn't lost overnight, just like you don't gain weight overnight. But bitching that noone whats to play with me because i'm fat doesn't do me any good. But admitting to my self that most people don't find fat sexy does. My number one rule in life is "to never lie to myself" And to say that people should over look my weight and want to meet us because we are such nice people who are fun to be around would be lieing to myself. What's sad is the one person who finds me sexy is the one who (as far as swinging goes) suffers the most.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2197 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"VA, I can tell you that as an overweight male, how I carry my self and the confidence level i desplay has little to do with it. " Well, I will say that as much as women accuse men of being so shallow all the time, me losing 20 pounds made one helluva difference in how women treated me. Perhaps some of that came from my own improved confidence, though.
Chesapeake VA			Username hidden (11823 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	She lost about 115 pounds between early 2011 and now. About 80 of it in 2011, and the rest in 2012. She was "bbw" for most of our swinging "career". All of her "bigger girl" pics are not on SLS anymore. She lost it through a combination of low carb dieting and cycling. Thousands of miles of cycling. She (literally) pedaled her ass off.
Chesapeake VA			Username hidden (11823 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sweetart - I have met men who were very overweight who I found very attractive. There was one guy I remember who was no less than 350 lbs and about 6'5. He was loud, boisterous, funny, and the center of attention at every party. He always had a beautiful woman at his arm. I wanted to climb that man like he was Mt. Everest.
Alpharetta GA			Username hidden (927 post)

GoTo Page: Less ... 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 ... More

Start

171 to 180 of 418

End

TOPIC: Fat discrimination