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TOPIC: Fat discrimination
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Having a preference is not mean.

One does not need to degrade or insult those they are not sexually interested in.

I don't consider the "BBC ONLY!" women to be "mean". I don't consider women who hate body hair to be "mean". I don't consider women who want me to be at least 45 (or less than 30) years old to be "mean". It's what they want. This is about making your fantasies come true and living the desires of your id, not making everyone sing kumbaya.

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"I feel ashamed to say that I do have a preference for slimmer men."

I, for one, believe you should not feel any shame whatsoever to having whatever preference you have.

I have said this many times: Nobody should ever feel the need to apologize for what they do or do not find sexually appealing.

If you like thin men/fat men/muscular men/white men/black men/chinese men/castrated men/hairy men/hairless men/dwarf men/giant men/clown-wig-wearing men/funny men/boring men/blind men/blue eyed men/big-nosed men/no-nosed men/men with speech impediments/men with Ferraris

It's YOUR business, YOUR preference, YOUR choice - and that should be 100% OK.

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BR fun couple,,,In terms of SEX, it's not discrimination...Its being discriminate and there is nothing wrong with that. Some people have hard boundaries, others not so much. Me? I can be seduced by humor, wit, intellect as well as physical attraction. Give me a fun funny, pleasant,adventurous size 14-16 over a mindless, humorless, boring size 2 anyway,

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Here's a blunt statement:

Those excluded by someone's preference tend to cry foul. And by "doesn't like" I mean "generally isn't interested in having sex with".

If someone doesn't like BBWs... BBWs complain.

If someone doesn't like black people.... black people complain.

If someone doesn't like single guys... single guys complain.

etc.

Look - there is not one among us who isn't - for one reason or another - excluded from some people's (sexual) interests. And that's 1,000% OK with me.

I can't tell you how many women have been "girls only" or "black guys only" or "guys with 6 packs only". Whatever turns your crank. No hard feelings. Best of luck.

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I don't understand how a personal preference (on a personal profile) can be considered discrimination. If I always choose beer over wine, am I discriminating against wine?

Baton Rouge LA
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Sweetlzabell...I see by your profile you do have hard boundaries, I can respect that, as you said, to each their own.

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Ring2...my point is that for us and many if not our guests, the alphabet soup (BBW, SSBBW, HWP, BBD, WFFBM, etc etc etc) is not a part of our lives. As i said we, we starrted our club 4 years ago with that mission statement, and were told by the existing club community it will never work...if I may pat myself on the back for a moment...4 years later..we are #1 in the Chicago area in terms of week by week and month by month attendance, and our guests and VIP members span the size, race and age spectrum.....size, age and race discrimination is NOT an inevitable in the lifestyle Does this mean people who do avoid certain demographics are "bad" people...no...just saying the walls are artificial

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Self imposed limits have never gotten in the way of my or my friends fun. So to each thier own preferences.

Spring TX
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Party... I do not understand the point you were trying to make?

Lansing MI
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Party... I do not understand the point you were trying to make?

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