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Lol too funny. However all my shoes are sexy or fun to me- even my sleepers. I do not own an ugly pair of shoes and I do not try them to see if I will change my mine. In my opinion people are attracted to what excites them for whatever reason- so be. I think people need to accept it.

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This is my own opinion...but....if the shoe doesn't fit, don't wear it.....but, don't stop looking at shoes! Sometimes the ugliest shoes fit the best and serve you the longest. If you always go for the pretty, delicate sling back, you might find that they hurt like hell and the straps or heels snap far too soon. Variety is the spice of life....and I like flavor. Just saying....

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Some people just do not want "handle " what they know they are not sexually interested in. Nothing wrong with that.

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Ring2s.....I never suggested anyone have sex with someone to avoid offending them. All I am saying is I personally think the "alphabet soup" (BBW, SSBBW, HWP, BBC, WF4BM, and all the rest) is too big an issue in some peoples minds

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party.... That is good you have a wide spectrum that excites you. Nothing wrong with that. It is good to know what you like and turns you on. I can appreciate that, But like you I know what I like. And it is not BBM - this should not be offending. I'm here to swing not to find a friend or spouse, but to have fun. If a friendship develps so be it. However, I am not going " to" have sex to not offend someone. Get real.

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Ln,

I'm happy to see what you wrote and I'm glad you're happy, and I am pleased as punch to hear that you "own what you have." Seriously. I know what it means vs just "dealing with it". It makes a big difference.

I'm glad our slightly rough introduction turned out better. Whether we are right for each other (by "we" I mean "anyone") in swinging is irrelevant. We all have different tastes and turn ons. The variety is what keeps this interesting.

I hope you don't mind if I repeat myself when I wish you both the best. Pleasure chatting with you, even if it sometimes got just a touch bit tense. I believe in being honest. Sometimes honesty can sting a little (and sometimes a lot), but at least we know we're dealing with "the truth", right?

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Thanks, Beach! Back at ya! And...btw...I do own every inch of the luscious landscape that is me......except on those days when age introduces me to all the aches, pains, creaks and groans that were hidden from me in younger days! On those days, I wish I was a sweet young thing with a nubile body. But, generally, I'm happy with what I've got!! All the peaks and valleys and all the scars remind me, every day, of the wonderful life I've lived, the gifts I've been given, and the obstacles that I've been able to overcome. And it's all mine! Who could ask for anything more?!?!

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OK, fair enough.

All the best to you both.

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Ahhh, VABeach.....nice to hear from you again! We do not list our weights because we do not feel it is important. In browsing through profiles, I find that the weights that are listed are not always accurate anyway. Most of the time, when ages, height, gender are listed, they tend to be accurate. In my experience.....notice I say MY experience.....things like weight, sexual preference and even sometimes the pictures posted, tend to not always be accurate. Besides that, my weight tends to fluctuate. So, why post a number that is constantly changing? Other sites have other options such as "large"...."more to love"....etc. On those sites, we post out body type. SLS doesn't offer any of those options. My age and height and gender are pretty stable.....though I may start to shrink as I age! But, for now....those are more stable. Hopefully, that answers your question. And hopefully, my response was a lot less negative than you've found my past responses. ; 0 )

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Might I ask you something LnTn.... and I am not attacking you...

Why do you list your weights as "0"?

I can think of two reasons:

1. You think it's unimportant. 2. You're not comfortable with the number.

In some people, there is a 3rd option - they're hiding something. This is not the case with you, as your pictures reveal you're "bigger people". I hope I have already been clear in previous posts that this is nothing to be ashamed of.

But, if the answer is #1 - why do you provide your height? Your age? Why do those things matter?

I, for one, think people who feel the need to not disclose their weight (or age, or height) are not "owning it", with "it" being who they are. When Mrs. VA was 250 pounds, damn hell that's what our profile said, and like I mentioned she *owned* it and enjoyed the lifestyle then as now. This is far better than when people hide behind zeroes (or outright laughable numbers), or put up pictures which reveal nothing.

I think you'd be happier if you "owned it" and didn't worry about those who don't find it interesting. I fear you think I'm picking on you or criticizing you. I'm not. Far from it. I'd rather you enjoy the lifestyle as much as you can, and I think you're holding yourself back a little from doing it.

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