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TOPIC: Fat discrimination
Created by: bihighpointcouple
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I have been looking at a lot of members profiles here on SLS. I see this a lot, "NO FATTYS" I wounder how long SLS would allow some one to say No blacks No whites No Mexicans No Jews, or to discriminate against any other group? Why is discrimination ok as long as it is against a fat person?

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While I havent seen "NO FATTYS, NO BLACKS or NO JEWS", I have read profiles that stated they preferred only whites or those that were in athletically fit.

You are confusing the word discrimination with preference.

You even say in your profile, "not looking for Ken or Barbie, they are fake...we are looking for real people". That seems a little harsh.

Like others have said, "you will never please everyone" and you just have to deal with that concept.

Toms River NJ
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I agree!

San Antonio TX
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You will never please everyone, no matter how hard you try. To some you are too thin, to others you are too heavy. I have learned the hard way what happens when you are too much of a pleaser and see your self worth solely in how others see you or perceive you. Trying to please others will only make you miserable, trust me. If you love yourself and have confidence in who you are...people will be attracted to that. Heavy or thin, nothing is more sexy than confident.

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We feel that people of all different shapes and sizes are beautiful.

Olmsted Falls OH
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yeah im heavy myself, and its hardto find someone to play with. We are not Barbies anymore.Its so easy to be hurt about ones weight.

Pahrump NV
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Hot Biscuits and OddCouple_93, thanks for the 2 snaps up, lol. This lifestyle is full of all shapes and sizes. If have a preference of a certain body shape, I'm certainly NOT going to put it in my profile, but I do always request a face pic before meeting folks. I can tell by the pic if there's a little extra meat on the bone, or a lot. I guess I have been lucky, I haven't experienced that sort of discrimination on SLS. If a person isn't interested, just be polite, say ur not interested at this time and move on, u don't need to hurt a persons feelings or waste their time or yours for that matter. I there is always going to be Someone ur not attracted to, but u don't need to be cruel or mean about it. Now I got in my 2 cents worth. Happy Times, and Have fun.

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Totally agree with B&B and WetKitty, I don't want to know people that would discriminate against anyone for any reason. I also do not try very hard to be offended. If I come across a profile that states "No Fatties" then I just shake my head and pass them by. Poor people might know what they want but don't know a more tactful way of expressing it. Sad for them. There are plenty of "NON Fatties" that pass them up as well. We don't have a problem with a lack of interest, in fact I have seen an insurgence of young men that find a women with some curves and a little extra padding to be ubber sexy. As far as how long will SLS allow it, probably forever. There are plenty of profiles that state "we are not looking for....", or "NO.....", its not necessarily discrimination, just preference, better worded preference.

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You're right on wetkitty!

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I am a BBW and have never had a shortage of interested parties, men and women. Its in the attitude, sensuality and sexual confidence and energy. If a person wants to make a judgment from a pic, then thats on them, they are missing out, and missing the big picture! Its about fun!

Stockton CA
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BandB that was very nicely said and oh so true. :)

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