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User Details are only visible to members.	Let me be the first to welcome you to the forums! Here's hopin', ropin', that you'll continue to post. Good luck in here...and some of us really like the cowboy, "Garth Brooks" sort of look. Attractiveness can be more about the twinkle in your eye than about how many hairs you have on your head. Gina
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (6064 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Hi folks!! I have been reading most of these posts for a while now with great interest and this is my first attempt at posting my thoughts. So please be patient and don't beat me up to bad..lol.. As a single man,who is going bald, getting old , and is overweight, I have a lot of strikes against me from the start. But I have found a few who are accepting of all these things and been invited to some house parties by some really nice folks and have made some great friends in this life style. But it is not always easy..lol..I have found that there are so many different "ideas" about what this about , that with patience you can find some real nice folks who accept you as you are and only judge you on your manners and personality. There have been several folks that I tried to contact and was turned away very quickly..and some not very damn nice about it ..lol..and then run into them at a party i was invited to and after they got to know me , decided that I really wasn't a bad guy. Some of these even turned into a good friendship with the benefits!! I guess my point here , is that all old , heavy , bald guys , are not bad fellows and we can actually be a lot of fun if given a chance...lol.. I find myself getting a little down from time to time because of the way some people treat others but then someone will come along and show me that not everyone is rude and mean..lol.. I just think personality and the brain has so much to do with what is attractive that many times i am very attracted to some one just from chatting with them and never even seen them!!! is that weird ???? Well, thanks for letting me ramble on here and good luck to all and don't lose faith..
New Braunfels TX			Username hidden (23 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	welcome to the forums Hmmming. Hope you continue to post. Gina
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (6064 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	we have run into that problem too. we even had people call me names and even asked if i had down syndrome because of me being a bbw and when i had long hair. we r honest about everything up front. if people treat everybody equal then there will be no problems.
Tulsa OK			Username hidden (1 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	JOey, the honesty in your posts is so refreshing. And it helps "us gals" to know that you guys go through some of the same thought patterns that we sometimes struggle with as well. Here's a story to illustrate what you seem to be saying here (maybe two stories): 1. We were at a hotel party and met a very nice couple. She was quite younger than he, and was just adorably cute and sexy. Mr and I BOTH wanted her and got to both enjoy her sexually. We ended up in a room with a few other friends, and we were having a good sexy time. Her husband was a bigger guy and was hilarious. He had that intelligent wit that I love. I wasn't attracted physically (just not "my type"), and as the night went on, he appealed to my intellect and sense of humor so much that I found him more attractive. It was not an alcohol thing, nor was it a "settling" thing. He wasn't pushy, and he wasn't trying to get me to "like" him. It was simply a brain thing...he attracted my BRAIN rather than my eyesight, and we ended up having fun sexually. I was happily surprised because I let myself be. 2. We became great friends (still are) with a couple we also met at a hotel party. He said early on (with his blunt honesty) that he usually was not attracted to women with my body type. BUT, that I was a surprise and so sexy (his words) that I opened his mind and actually changed it to the point where he saw beauty and sexiness in a new and different way than he had imagined. That was pretty cool, but I wasn't trying to do that. I don't want to be with anyone who isn't interested or attracted. However, those are two examples of things happening differently than expected. He went on to be a master in the world of swinging, and credited me with helping to change his predetermined ideas and ideals of what constitutes sexiness and attractiveness. For him, it became something more than body type or a number on a scale. This will not work, nor should it, for everyone. It's just my example of how things aren't always as they appear at first. Please don't consider this a sermon of how people "should" act or think, because I believe that everyone is absolutely entitled to his/her own sense of attraction and that no one should try to tell someone else how to think, feel or behave. Gina
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (6064 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	" I think I was saying that I myself sometimes get a little intimidated." ...and "But I still get that first time uneasyness if I myself feel like I don't physically match up. " ...i hear you my friend. I'm soo bad about that... it's possible I will not be able to really embrace the lifestyle. :( PDG... i haven't learned that yet. looking forward to it tho... :)
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	To me, it is kind of like stage fright at first. I don't have large breasts, nor a flat stomach. It took me awhile to realize only a few look for someone perfect looking. I also am terrible at flirting, whereas Dave is very good at it.
Quakertown PA			Username hidden (1831 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	It is not easy to learn that, but through time, you realize you are talking to people you barely know.
Quakertown PA			Username hidden (1831 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think I was saying that I myself sometimes get a little intimidated. Where I dont think Im unattractive. When we're meeting a couple for lets say full swap. If the man in the couple has a gym body and is really hung. I cant help but be a little intimidated because Im going to be having sex with someone who usually has someone with a great body and a bigger schlong. Most of the time my fears go unfounded. We all have a great time and stay in touch and play many times. But I still get that first time uneasyness if I myself feel like I don't physically match up.
Mount Juliet TN			Username hidden (662 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I understand :) i just was just trying to find out if he felt bad more often than having fun... ....then i just realized i missed Joey's first sentence in that Post... "One thing about this game. Never take anything personally." ---well that answer's that! lol it's so true tho... but also hard to do sometimes.
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

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