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User Details are only visible to members.	Everyone has their preferences. Some people look at a larger woman and see "BBW" and some see a fat woman. We get email all the time from guys who are "football player builds" or so they describe themselves. Or they say something like "I played football in college. Ok. So thats just another way to say youre a fat guy. As a bi guy. Im not attracted to fat men. Football players or not. I would certainly not be rude in my response but changing the term used doesnt change the fact. My had gained a LOT Of weight during our marriage and it did get to the point where I could not perform. I couldnt control it. So I wouldnt seek out a "BBW" on here and if I were contacted by one I would respond with a polite no thanks. It would make no sense to put myself into a position where I already know I would not enjoy myself and be unable to perform.
Mount Juliet TN			Username hidden (662 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	ImAnewDee, That must be devastating, all that means that isn't wasn't ment to be. I know it's a hard pill to swallow. It will all work out in the end....I'm a true believer in that.
Monmouth Beach NJ			Username hidden (3 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"Just think of it the same as any other trait - whether it be hair color, eye color, race, gender. If they arent attracted, no need to try and convince someone that you are still what they want. Easier to accept it and move on. Prove to others you dont need their approval to be happy...make them want you. A little self-esteem goes a helluva long way. NEXT ;)" Wow... what a story! Thank you for sharing it with us. I copied and pasted your last part so it could be at the top and not be missed. It meant alot to me and may to others. I'm sorry for the losses you had to go thru to get where you are but kudo's to you girl for doing what you had to do for 'yourself'! Did you know that you were that strong? Welcome to the forums and I certainly hope you stick around! ;) Lady K
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Ok...will put in my opinion on this. I just look at it all as a matter of preference plain and simple. I used to be a lot bigger than I am now so I do know what I am talkin about. Some men simply prefer BBWs. Call it a fetish, uncontrollable desire, whatever....its a fact of life. I was with someone for 13 years who loved me as a ssbbw...size 36/38...but I lost weight for myself and many health related issues. he didnt approve of what I did and during my weight loss journey, he decided that we needed to go our seperate ways. Yes, it was difficult but we only have one life to live and why spend it tryin to please someone when we need to make ourself happy first and foremost. So that is more on my philosophy of life than BBWs...so back to my story....lol I was happier and healthier, playin and havin fun...and found another relationship. I was approx a 20/22 when the next semi-serious relationship started...as I reached the 16/18 point...I knew it was over. I was still losin weight albeit slower...but that one ended because of body changes with the loss...breasts werent as full...less padded in areas that were once nice and thick...saggy skin areas that only plastic surgery could correct were takin over. the things that were visual attractions for him was no longer there. So I could develop a complex about things and be depressed about body image...but it is what it is. I continued to lose and am now at a 12/14...whereas some tell me I am no longer a BBW so stop calling myself that. But I am a fat gurl at heart and will always be one. Proud to be a fat gurl!!! Phase I of the skin removal has been done...with one or two more to go depending on life circumstance. Some days I want to be a little larger to be in my comfort zone...but I know I am perfectly fine as I am and dont need to change for anyone but me. If others dont like it...oh fukn well! :) Just clears the path faster for the ones that do like me and find me devestatingly gorgeous ~ flaws and all...and I will be ready, willing, and able for that person when they arrive and not off somewhere dealin with BS instead. Just think of it the same as any other trait - whether it be hair color, eye color, race, gender. If they arent attracted, no need to try and convince someone that you are still what they want. Easier to accept it and move on. Prove to others you dont need their approval to be happy...make them want you. A little self-esteem goes a helluva long way. NEXT ;) And yes I am single writing this...but life is what it is...keepin my eyes open for my match... and loving all the possibilities that lie ahead of me.
Saginaw MI			Username hidden (3 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"...had just starting chatting online with a lady that wanted to me and she threw that term saying I must tell you I am a BBW I said that ok I am a baptist." ---- too funny BlackRainman! ...love your pic too. I haven't seen you in the forums before, so Welcome! Lady K
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	The BBW topic has been tossed around a lot, I think the turn is over used by some that are no where in the zone of being a BBW. I recall the first time I heard the term BBW, I had just starting chatting online with a lady that wanted to me and she threw that term saying I must tell you I am a BBW I said that ok I am a baptist. I had no clue what the hell it meant. I have and to this day enjoy the company of some BBW and like some of the comments it depends on how it is presented. Not dress to show that you can be erotic or unkept, Then there is a comment as to where someone said you block single males so by your own likes and dislikes you have selected not to engage and encounter with a certain type of person so respecting that someone would not desire you should be understood if that be there case.
Irving TX			Username hidden (35 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thank you!
Monmouth Beach NJ			Username hidden (3 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	welcome to the forums 107569! :)
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	People just don't know how to enjoy a BBW, My ex was one and pretty much all of my g/f's were as well. My friends use to think that all I was looking for was just, but I look not only on the outside, but the inside where it also count.
Monmouth Beach NJ			Username hidden (3 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I gotta agree with Sweettart. That being said....I (male half) don't have a problem with BBW's. I have seen and played with some BBW's that I thought were absolutely gorgeous, sexy, alluring, and VERY desirable. Then I see pictures of some couples on SLS and of some of these "ladies" (and guys) look as though they haven brushed their teeth in years, washed their hair in months, bothered to put on clean cloths in Gawd knows how long, and is so grossly obese and grimy looking that it causes one to think...."Do they really think that's attractive?" Some people simply want to associate with H/W proportionate people, and that's OK !!! Others aren't so stringent IF the BBW is someone who is actually a BBW and not a slob. Bikerdude
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